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re: For married OTers, could you handle your spouse having an emotional affair/connection?

Posted on 3/30/24 at 5:58 pm to
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176366 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 5:58 pm to
I owe so many OT husbands an apology for my criminal charm
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
22292 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 6:21 pm to
The ladies love your hair.
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
32705 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 6:25 pm to
I would pretend that I understood and it was normal. Then I would slowly begin protecting my assets and talking to a lawyer, then I would almost encourage the cheating.

I would stop dates, distance myself and give her plenty of opportunity to commit adultry and hire a PI.


If she's thinking about fricking another dude to the point of telling you- that relationship is dead. Now you need to CYA and protect yourself.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176366 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 6:28 pm to
they do

but that's not the real reason

its my eyes
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
1029 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 6:33 pm to
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I can't wait to hear these honest answers.

You won’t because the concept makes absolutely no sense and they know it.

My friends are dudes who I text frequently. Who I just up and treat to lunch every now and then. That I’ll go workout with. That I’ll pick up from wherever and drive to wherever. If one of them was in trouble or in a crisis in the middle of the night, I’m there. Even if I have to stay the night.

Now I’m gonna replace the word dude with women. You said it perfectly, this shouldn’t be a problem since we’re “fiends” right?

It’s so ridiculous
This post was edited on 3/30/24 at 6:35 pm
Posted by thecoconuttiger
Member since Mar 2024
185 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 6:39 pm to
Link please... I would love to read that post
Posted by theCrusher
Slidell
Member since Nov 2007
1145 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 7:11 pm to
Read - it’s only a matter of time before they cheat.

No is the only answer.
Posted by IMATIGERFAN
San Antonio, TX
Member since Apr 2007
1303 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 7:17 pm to
frick no. I’m not a cuck.
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
19673 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 7:50 pm to
It only gives me time to begin the process of making sure when I file for divorce, she gets very little.
Posted by OU812ME2
Earth
Member since Jun 2021
832 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 7:55 pm to
I would handle it alright. I'd drop her and cut my losses. Life is too short to be with a lying bitch. I can overlook a lot of issues, but infidelity isn't one I have interest in overlooking.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4690 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 9:03 pm to
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It depends. Is she talking to them a lot and not talking to me? Is it also football season?




Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
16258 posts
Posted on 3/30/24 at 9:23 pm to
Immediate divorce.

I have too much pride to do it any other way.

And when I say pride, I don’t mean it in a good way. I have ended way too many relationships (including work and friends) over my pride.

I am working on it but I am not there yet.

I would rather be alone than look into the face of a cheater for the rest of my life.
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