re: What are women actually attracted to?

Completely depends what the individual has been conditioned to find attractive. Stems from childhood and is mostly solidified by around the age of 13-14. Personality traits are rooted and fixed by that age, unless there are major traumatic events after that age. There are certain trends and majorities though. Always ask questions and be genuinely interested in the responses. Make sure to signal that you have heard them by repeating back to them what you have heard and signaling you have digested their responses with follow up questions. Get her talking about her interests and dreams. The better you get at that, the better you will do. And remember that society(mostly through corporate marketing) has had a massive impact over the last 30-40 years due to increase and effectiveness in marketing reach. Last 10 years it’s been on steroids with advances in targeting and increased touch points. The major trends are the obvious. Some are controllable and some are not. Taller is more desirable. You can wear platforms, but that’s only going to help so much if you are 5’2. Certain physiques are more desirable to the majority, societal status, money, life style projection, etc. Focus on the controllables. Good luck