re: What are women actually attracted to?

In my experience its usually something in the middle. Most women like the blue collar guy that can hold down a job, semi-intelligent that can carry a conversation, that also keeps himself in physical and mental shape and treats everybody well. I don't think they are attracted to body builder types after they've dated that.

I've been around the block with a few of the bikini model types in my time. Most of which were single moms. One of the best lines I ever remember was hanging out with a Dallas ex-stripper, 42 at the time, in her apartment all Saturday after some online chats around 2015. I was 36. She had the small waist and the fake exotic looks. "I've been with rich guys and poor guys, but the happiest I've ever been was with poor guys" with tears in her face. She wasn't lying.