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Permission to marry from future father in law, still done?

Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:37 pm
Posted by Trevaylin
south texas
Member since Feb 2019
5967 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:37 pm
Spring of 1968, I asked permission from wife to be's father a week before I made it official with an engagement ring. He said yep I am glad you asked. I was 20 years old at the time and a second semester sophomore , chem. engr.,

Is asking permission still a tradition? 55 years later it was a good start for a lasting relationship.

Posted by dukeg7213
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2023
3116 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:38 pm to
Yeah
Posted by Master of Sinanju
Member since Feb 2012
11371 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:38 pm to
What if he says no?
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56468 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:39 pm to
Dealers choice from traditions.

I did not because she wasn’t chattel.
Posted by OldManRiver
Prairieville, LA
Member since Jan 2005
6925 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:39 pm to
I asked 25 years ago

My guess is if my daughters current boyfriend would ask, it would be over text or maybe he would try and message me on Xbox Live
Posted by Taxman2010
In The Woods
Member since Jan 2022
542 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:40 pm to
My father in law was asking me to marry his daughter.
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
8190 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:40 pm to
I’d imagine if the father-in-law is worth asking, you should probably ask him.

I don’t think anyone expects someone to ask him if he’s a piece of shite.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:40 pm to
I didn't.

Wouldn't care if my eventual son in law did.

Would probably just try to talk him out of it.
Posted by geauxtigers87
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2011
25247 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:40 pm to
i asked and he goes yeah i figured this was coming
Posted by 0x15E
Outer Space
Member since Sep 2020
12829 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:40 pm to
whooped my father-in-law’s arse in a game of 21 right before I asked him.

He was impressed.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63643 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:41 pm to
quote:

Is asking permission still a tradition?


That's considered out of fashion these days. Instead, young gentlemen ask the prospective FIL if they can make love to the young maiden.
Posted by L1C4
The Ville
Member since Aug 2017
13302 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:41 pm to
I wish I would have asked mine.

He may have tried to talk me out of it.
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
6098 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:42 pm to
Yes, have some class. Plus, one final chance for him to reveal their daughter used to be their son.

Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64321 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:42 pm to
If you want them to pay for shite, yes, it's a necessary step.
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
9337 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:42 pm to
Yes.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10278 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:43 pm to
You have the right to demand the father meet you at Sonic.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64321 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:45 pm to
quote:

What if he says no?


Knock her up and move on, to assert dominance.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
99327 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:46 pm to
Yes
Posted by CrimsonTideMD
Member since Dec 2010
6925 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:48 pm to
I met with my soon to be in laws and asked both of them for their blessing, rather than permission.


When the times come, I’ll encourage my son to do the same.

Posted by tylerlsu2008
Zurich
Member since Jul 2015
1176 posts
Posted on 7/9/23 at 7:49 pm to
I called my now father-in-law, told him I had bought a ring, said a few kind words about both my wife and their family, and said I hoped we had their forever blessing.

We are in our 30s and I wasn’t going to ask permission, but my now in-laws had been good to me from the beginning, so I thought it was nice to give them a call beforehand. My wife was happy I did.
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