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re: What’s the boards opinion on the term “gaslighting”

Posted on 5/18/24 at 11:45 am to
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 11:45 am to
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All these psychological phrases get overused, which causes a reaction to make fun of the phrase and the concept by the cool OT kids.
It's the character of the folks who overuse these terms which make them not cool.

At what point does persuasion turn to manipulation? I'd say when one party starts to disagree and needs to weaponize a meaningless word as a defense against logic and reasoning.
Posted by pbro62
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 11:48 am to
I thought you were just an idiot in the horse racing threads but you are a moron throughout. Go find something to do besides posting all day long you ignorant frick.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 11:51 am to
Yep. That’s me!

Love you too.

You do seem very interested in me all the sudden. I can’t see gad holding onto an alter that long, but I guess you never know…
This post was edited on 5/18/24 at 11:53 am
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Member since Jun 2020
42682 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 11:55 am to
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I thought you were just an idiot in the horse racing threads but you are a moron throughout. Go find something to do besides posting all day long you ignorant frick.
who the frick are you? Don’t go thread to thread and board to board following Aspercel around like a fricking creep

Why don’t you get a job, you fricking loser.
Posted by St Augustine
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 11:59 am to
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 12:00 pm to
I use it in this sense only:



If I hear it out in the wild, I know it's some wimpy soyboy bullshite. I don't know what it means nor am I interested in ever finding out.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 12:07 pm to
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believe it’s a term women use bc most can’t stand to be wrong and don’t won’t men correcting and or debating them when they know the male count part has a valid point.

It's a term lazy, spoiled, chronically online people use to cope when someone disagrees with them or holds them accountable. I've never heard this term used in real life amongst normal people.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
79079 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 12:35 pm to
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It is just lying. Which is always bad. So I call it lying

If told the same lie enough one can easily begin to believe it. Pretty soon, after a year of hearing someone say “ you don’t love me. You never loved me. What’s wrong with you that I don’t feel loved” and having this lie attributed to you, you understand the game . Or you internalize the lie and become that person’s psychological servant. But yes a LIE is at the core of all gaslighting. At its most malevolent, say a boss or a spouse who is a grandiose narcissist it can begin to feel almost violent. Especially if you don’t understand what you are experiencing.

Posted by North Dallas Tiger
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Member since Mar 2024
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:00 pm to
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At its most malevolent, say a boss or a spouse who is a grandiose narcissist it can begin to feel almost violent.



Who says this?

You ain't no Pimp...

Quit being a sensitive little baby, fool...
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59160 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:09 pm to
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To me, it’s a made up BS therapy world word.


Man, some of you are not embarrassed at all by your own ignorance.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59160 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:10 pm to
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If I hear it out in the wild, I know it's some wimpy soyboy bullshite. I don't know what it means nor am I interested in ever finding out.


Another one. You’re ignorant, and you have no intention of even trying to remedy that ignorance.
Posted by White Bear
Yonnygo
Member since Jul 2014
14077 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:13 pm to
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Wrong again. Nobody likes to be wrong. Both men and women have been using it lately BUT they are mostly using it incorrectly which is the actual thing you should be annoyed at.
quote:

Well you're wrong right off the bat.
seems R11’s been gaslighted
Posted by Mr Clean
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:18 pm to
Not sure what it means.

I gloss over it when reading sentences
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
938 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:19 pm to
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I gloss over it when reading sentences


that's called auto-gaslighting
Posted by Slippy
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Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:19 pm to
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The origin of the term is the 1938 British thriller play Gas Light by Patrick Hamilton, which provided the source material for the 1940 British film, Gaslight. The film was then remade in 1944 in America – also as Gaslight – and it is this film which has since become the primary reference point for the term.[4][5][6] Set among London's elite during the Victorian era, it portrays a seemingly genteel husband using lies and manipulation to isolate his heiress wife and persuade her that she is mentally unwell so that he can steal from her.[7] The term "gaslighting" itself is neither in the screenplay nor mentioned in either the films or the play in any context. In the story, the husband secretly dims and brightens the indoor gas-powered lighting but insists his wife is imagining it, making her think she is going insane.
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
938 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:21 pm to
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The term "gaslighting" itself is neither in the screenplay nor mentioned in either the films or the play in any context. I


thanks baw, always wondered why there are so many Gaslight theaters/playhouses
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
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Member since Mar 2024
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Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:26 pm to
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that's called auto-gaslighting
Lulz.

North Dallas Tiger fricks with them Eastern Europeans and takes back his prior comments - you funny bra

eta: no gaslighting
This post was edited on 5/18/24 at 1:27 pm
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
938 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:28 pm to
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fricks with them Eastern Europeans and takes back his prior comments


many thanks baw
Posted by HoustonChick86
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Member since Dec 2009
57474 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:36 pm to
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It's not just lying, it's manipulation meant to get the target to question themselves

Yes, over a long period of time to get the a user what they want.

It's a legit thing. And awful.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57474 posts
Posted on 5/18/24 at 1:47 pm to
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spent decades being “ gaslit “. Call it want you want, it’s a tactic. Narcissists specialize in it. If you don’t recognize it, it can destroy you. I can spot it now, have recently, and I run with a quickness.

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