re: Wife is mad because I won't go to in laws twice in three weeks

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I thought going once a month was a good compromise, I'm actually shocked how many folks are saying to just go

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It is a good compromise. I'm advising going unless the fallout of not going is worth it to you.

I think it's too much driving in too short a time frame, and the conversation needs to be had afterward. This needs to be a one time deal, not a pattern.