re: People that are always talking about moving

there is no perfect place to live
even the most desirable places have their own issues and that's if you can even afford it

the best thing to do is when you are single and have more portability in your life, go out and explore new places and see what it's like and then determine where you ultimately want to put down roots

once you get married and have kids it's a lot harder to do that
once you get established in your career, it's also a lot harder to move especially if you want to maintain that lifestyle