re: Kids struggling with divorce

Wife used to work at a marriage and family counseling practice. She focused on counseling the children. I recommend you at least try it. They build a deep trust with the counselor. If you are concerned and considering it, that shows that you are a good dad who is mindful of their children's well being.

And if the ex is spreading lies and tainting them with a bad perception of you, counseling will help with seeing the good things about you.