re: Kids struggling with divorce

Been there done that 10 yrs ago-
1)Take the high road and don’t badmouth the whore.
2) get the kids professional counseling. They need to talk about it to somebody- don’t wait and think it’ll pass; it just builds
3) don’t give in to feeling guilty and letting them get away with stuff They’ll play you like a violin.
4) Don’t spoil them during your time; it’s not a contest and buying them crap makes it worse

Good luck and make sure you continually tell them that it’s not their fault.