Are you struggling because you didn’t want the divorce? Or because the divorce is difficult?

My advice is to just try to be as nice to each other as you can. All the things you may argue over during the divorce won’t really matter in the long run.

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Posted by SG_Geaux

Beautiful St George

Member since Aug 2004

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Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:07 am to Xenophon

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Are you struggling because you didn’t want the divorce?

I wanted it and didn't want it. Hardest thing I ever did was leave her, but she was slowly killing herself regardless of what I said or did.

Finally realized I couldn't save her because she didn't want to be saved so I had to save myself.

She passed a few years later and it was completely avoidable if she had tried even a little bit to take care of herself.

Not trying to hijack. Just gave me an opportunity to vent.

This post was edited on 5/6/23 at 12:13 am

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Posted by ArmyHogs

Your mom's house

Member since Feb 2012

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Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:33 am to Xenophon

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Are you struggling because you didn’t want the divorce? Or because the divorce is difficult?

We have had big issues for years and she decided to end it. There is no cheating or abuse. Over the years we just became toxic to each other. Couldn’t get along. I am to blame for a lot of it. She suggested marriage counseling a couple of times and my stupid stubborn arse said no, and we could handle it ourselves. Obviously now it’s a huge regret. She isn’t being a bitch to me or anything but I hate it cause I just want to hate her but I can’t you know. We have 3 daughters and that’s the worst part for me know is knowing we have to tell them eventually. We agreed to wait til we are officially separated.

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