re: Starting Over After Divorce

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Shouldn’t you be more worried about how your divorce impacts his life???

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He's 7 months old. He won't know any different. Splitting every other weekend between mom and dad.


Like another poster said...make him your focus right now. Wouldn't even worry about the dating scene until you get into a routine. You'll have every other weekend for going out on a dinner date or even a weeknight here and there. You need time to adjust, get comfortable with yourself, being on your own and being a divorced dad.

And you're only 40, you're not dead. I'm in my early 50's and single, divorced for a long time, kids are grown. I don't date very much, it's rare, and I do a bunch of things on my own.

I know it's easier said than done but, do your own thing and don't dwell on it. Broaden your hobbies.