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Do You Feel Like You Made Your Parents Proud?

Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:26 pm
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
1995 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:26 pm
At this point in your life, do you feel like you made your parents proud?

Were you ever someone who felt it was important to please your parents and what they thought of you stayed on your mind? I’m kind of guilty of this. Haven’t made some of the best choices and while I want to have a conversation with them about life, I just don’t know how to start that conversation.

Anybody relate to this?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136861 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:28 pm to
Such a complex question.

In some areas, yes.

In other areas, absolutely not.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57475 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:32 pm to
I mean they raised (well I did in the end) of my high school years, a decent human being. I finished college, paid back all my loans, have a good job and work hard. Make decent-ish money, but no OT baller. I make what I think are good financial decisions. So I would hope that is enough to have made them proud.

I mean I've definitely fricked up plenty and have my issues, but overall I would say yes as they raised a functional member of society.
Posted by Misnomer
Member since Apr 2020
3459 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:33 pm to
Yes, I've made them proud. It did matter to me a great deal to succeed in their eyes, even when they were no longer my disciplinarians, and especially when they thought it wasn't a good idea

The desire to meet and exceed expectations starts at home. It's an important character trait.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16268 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:36 pm to
Yes. I’ve got them fooled pretty well.
Posted by lnomm34
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
12626 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:37 pm to
I am deeply indebted to my parents. They worked their asses off for me to be able to be successful. I lost my dad three and a half years ago - he was only 62.

Sucks that I didn’t get a chance to repay him in some way for the life he set me up for. Now I just want to do the same for my kids and set them up for a life better than mine. And try not to frick up the work they did for me.

If that makes sense.
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
73106 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:38 pm to
You aren’t here to make your parents proud. You are here to make yourself proud.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
99367 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:39 pm to
Father? Yes.

Mother? Probably.
Posted by fjlee90
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2016
7859 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:40 pm to
Depends on who you ask.

I’ve never heard my mother say she was proud of me.

My dad on the other hand, will never let me forget how proud I’ve made him.

The real question, are you proud of yourself?

Even more real, are you proud of the children you’ve raised?
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103238 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:42 pm to
Not at all.
Posted by Sput
Member since Mar 2020
7999 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:44 pm to
I struck out with the bases loaded in the first ever travel ball World Series in Orange Beach.

So No
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8629 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:44 pm to
No, but the feeling is mutual...
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48941 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:46 pm to
I'm pretty sure my dad is still shocked I'm not in prison, went to college and am a normal, productive adult
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21526 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:48 pm to
Nope
Posted by Sevensblue
Las Vegas
Member since Apr 2022
1003 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:54 pm to
Nah I haven’t made em proud. Life is about what you think not others opinions right? It’s hard because it’s natural to care about how you’re seen by others. Doin my best is the only way I know how to live
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
2885 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:55 pm to
Wanna make your parents proud?

1.) Take them out to a nice dinner out of the blue and sincerely thank them during that dinner for their sacrifices in feeding and housing you.

2.) Spend time with them as much as possible.

3.) Bring your momma her favorite flowers out of the blue.

4.) Show your old man you've learned his advice by how you live your life.

Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
27251 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 8:57 pm to
Yes. If I would get around to giving them a grandkid, their lives would basically be complete
Posted by StayStrapped
Member since Apr 2024
94 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 9:00 pm to
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15556 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 9:11 pm to
Nope. Didn’t marry who they wanted me too, dropped out of college to get married (over 40 years and still going) didn’t want to take over the family business, etc, etc.

Buried my dad cause he died broke and wouldn’t listen, will probably do the same for my mother eventually.

Even after bailing him out on more than one occasion, I’m retiring this year with no debt and kids I see on a regular basis. So I’m fine being a disappointment in their eyes. I’m not in my wife and kids, which is what matters.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4692 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 9:15 pm to
Financially/career wise, I far exceed my parents. Out of my three kids, I don't know if they will surpass me. I think dark days are coming over the next 50 years.
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