re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people

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Why did you put up with it for so long? Did you still plan on marrying her?

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Hard to understand why I put up with it for so long or didn't throw her out immediately. I've recently learned I am a rescuer and I think deep down she wants to be rescued but cannot help herself. I do think she displays a lot of if not all the traits of a subtle unaware narcissist. But, I need to have more self-respect and not stay with a narcissist as someone already said.