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re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people

Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:56 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:56 pm to
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she told me that she will always be friends with her exes


If you had made a post on the OT earlier with just this, us Baws could have saved you a lot of time and legwork.



don't care what any of you baws say, when a chick says that it should be a yuuuge red flag, means she ain't done wit dat dick, keeping them on retainer
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
4400 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:56 pm to
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Yep, I hope they will stop talking to her. All I can say is that everyone thought we were an awesome couple and they really loved her.


Show them the pics of her making out with other dudes. If they are still amicable with her, then they are just as shitty as she is.
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
6628 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:56 pm to
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Did anyone answer the gas station conundrum?


For those in the know of the “Gas Station Method”, I implore you to remember your initial oath and not discuss details here where it can be found in future Google searches.

#unleaDED
Posted by BusinessKnight
Member since Sep 2017
376 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:58 pm to
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[ I still love her ] No you don’t. You love the thought of her. Delete her number from your phone, her friends numbers from your phone, delete her and her friends from your social networks if you are on any. Do not contact her or her friends, in any fashion. Do not ,” creep” on her social networks or her friends. You want to move on? This is how you do it. Start spending free time in nature and excercising.


VERY good advice.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32719 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:00 pm to
That is good advice. Rember, the opposite of being in love is not hate, it's indifference.
Posted by BusinessKnight
Member since Sep 2017
376 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:04 pm to
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He loves an idealized version of her that never actually existed. I’ve been there. It sucks. You have to reframe this as a net positive and that you’re pining over someone who wasn’t real, ie the person you thought she was not the person she actually is.

I really think this is correct. I've started calling her "fantasy {her name here} when I talk about her and distinguish who I love vs who she really is.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 1:04 pm
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
15720 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:04 pm to
Only thing you can do with hoes is cut em loose and thank em for the secks. Typical of them to blame you for getting mad about them cheating. Frick her and her kid. Lawyer up and use the proof as evidence of adultry and get a clean break.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:05 pm to
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Lawyer up


why? they aren't married are they(assuming any of OP is true?)
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
15576 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:07 pm to
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30 year marriage to a hot wife here.


Go on
Posted by LSUAngelHere1
Watson
Member since Jan 2018
8198 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:07 pm to
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Yep, I hope they will stop talking to her. All I can say is that everyone thought we were an awesome couple and they really loved her. She has a lot of great qualities and developed highly integrated relationships. We were a popular topic in our family. While they knew she cheated, they probably want us to get back together and I haven't told them the extent of things. It is one of the reasons why this has been so difficult. A lot of hurt in both families. The minor kids are also real victims here. I was a father figure - the first real one - to her two minor kids.

That’s exactly what narcissists do. A lot of people think they’re wonderful but those close to them who get to scratch the surface become their victims.
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5151 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:07 pm to
Get the ring back.

Post pics
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
10325 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:09 pm to


Oh I'm in!
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
12636 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:09 pm to
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I've had a lot of fun hooking up with ex's that wanted to sow a few wild oats right before they were about to get married


I don't think I could have even gotten it up with this one. After I found out all the foul secrets she had been keeping from me when we were dating, I just couldn't look at her the same. She repulsed me.
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:10 pm to
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Universal Citation: LA Rev Stat § 14:323 (2017) §323. Tracking devices prohibited; penalty A. No person shall use a tracking device to determine the location or movement of another person without the consent of that person. B. The following penalties shall be imposed for a violation of this Section: (1) For the first offense, the fine shall be not less than five hundred dollars nor more than one thousand dollars, or imprisonment for not more than six months, or both. (2) For the second offense, the fine shall be not less than seven hundred fifty dollars nor more than one thousand five hundred dollars, or imprisonment for not less than thirty days nor more than six months, or both. (3) For the third offense and all subsequent offenses, the fine shall be not less than one thousand dollars nor more than two thousand dollars, or imprisonment for not less than sixty days nor more than one year, or both.


What kind of a cuck would vote for that?
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 1:11 pm
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:10 pm to
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I don't think I could have even gotten it up with this one. After I found out all the foul secrets she had been keeping from me when we were dating, I just couldn't look at her the same. She repulsed me.



yeah, for me it was just girls that I had dated, had great times with, and parted amicably
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28572 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:12 pm to
Was wondering what the law was on that.
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
7925 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:17 pm to
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But, I still love her

Well, you should stop.
Posted by BFIV
Virginia
Member since Apr 2012
7750 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:17 pm to
Turn in your man card.
Posted by LSUcajun77
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2008
21304 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:24 pm to
Did you ever confront her with the pics and videos as evidence?

Did you show your family/her family?

Im kinda confused to why her son would call you a stalker and your family still talks to her if you have evidence of her being a complete whore. That’s not just cheating, that some prostitute level shite.

Also, what’s her onlyfans?
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79322 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 1:25 pm to
None of that is true, but I can't imagine -

1) getting in a serious relationship with someone you know is nuts and sleeps around
2) having such a shitty multi-year relationship that you don't know what your live-in SO is doing during the day and don't know who she's talking to on the phone, etc.
3) finding out what she is doing and spending weeks and months continuing to investigate after you already know
4) sticking around long enough to become the dumpee in this situation

It's like a magnum opus of cuck
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