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Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?

Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:49 pm
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
45431 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:49 pm
Ex GF that I maintain sparse communication with is coming to town for a conference and has asked to meet up with me for dinner.

I have no interest in doing anything sexual with her. Just old friends. Fiancé will be out of town for a week visiting family.

Telling her about it could just create drama. No drama needs to be created because there is no cause for such. So should I just not say anything and keep it simple and easy? Or do I tell her and deal with the possible crap that will follow? Or do I tell the ex that I don’t think it’s a good idea then deal with the crap from her asking me to explain why it’s a problem/not a good idea?

I ask your suggestions o wise ones.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40280 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:49 pm to
quote:

Ex GF that I maintain sparse communication with is coming to town for a conference and has asked to meet up with me for dinner.



WHy?
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:50 pm to
Sure, if you want to be single
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
45431 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:50 pm to
Again, nothing will happen if I meet her. I’m sure of it.
Posted by UnluckyTiger
Member since Sep 2003
36069 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:50 pm to
Dumb.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63676 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:50 pm to
A secret, solo dinner date with an ex.

What could go wrong?
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
How would you feel if your Fiancé did this?
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80460 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
Risk reward analysis.

Is the risk of losing your fiance worth the reward of dinner with this former girlfriend?
This post was edited on 3/26/19 at 6:52 pm
Posted by JPinLondon
not in London (currently NW Ohio)
Member since Nov 2006
7855 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
pics of your fap hand, to give proper analysis
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
3482 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
You should at least wait until after you’re married to start lying to her
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48957 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
quote:

Again, nothing will happen if I meet her. I’m sure of it.

That's never the way it worked out when I started hanging out with an ex

Your fiance won't think so either
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
10662 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
Of course DON’T tell you tell your finance, and then you DON’T meet the old gf
Posted by Scooba
Member since Jun 2013
19999 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:51 pm to
quote:

Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé


I laugh every time some dude on here says he has a fiancé.
Posted by FreddieMac
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
21140 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:52 pm to
Why do you even need to ask?
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:52 pm to
Would you want your fiancee to meet her ex-boyfriend for dinner while you were out of town?


Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:52 pm to
Someone is going to be frickin
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
45431 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:53 pm to
quote:

A secret, solo dinner date with an ex. What could go wrong?

Well when you put it this way it sounds bad.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34521 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:53 pm to
Honestly all of your options are retarded. You should have nothing to do with an ex, out of respect for your fiancé
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37622 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:53 pm to
Do it and don’t tell her
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48875 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:53 pm to
You aren’t mature enough to get married.
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