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re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?
Posted on 5/31/23 at 11:26 am to ArmyHogs
Posted on 5/31/23 at 11:26 am to ArmyHogs
quote:What other choice do you have. Be a pile of shite and not do what needs to be done? You get up every morning, you be careful to not live in your own misery, you put a smile on your face and fake it till it is not faking it anymore.
How do people keep their minds from going to crazy dark places and handle their shite?
This post was edited on 5/31/23 at 11:30 am
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 11:48 am to ArmyHogs
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How do people keep their minds from going to crazy dark places and handle their shite?
Bad choices are followed by difficult consequences. Take 2 weeks with a good friend to semi-remote Alaska to ponder and regroup. Leave with a definitive plan. Go to Vegas 3-4 days and properly celebrate the forward path. This is important-Do not go directly home after Vegas. Head up to Yellowstone, rent a 3-4 night stay in a remote cabin to rest, reflect and strategize. Head home and execute plan! Good Luck!
Posted on 5/31/23 at 12:56 pm to ArmyHogs
Start dating younger, happier women. You will forget about it in a nanosecond.
Posted on 5/31/23 at 1:01 pm to ArmyHogs
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Also, not going to counseling with her is the biggest regret I have. I know people keep saying to do it, but it’s not something she wants to do now. I screwed up by not doing it before. I know this.
Have you tried asking if this is still an option?
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:37 pm to Bubb
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Have you tried asking if this is still an option?
He should go regardless. There’s likely a very slim chance his wife would be open to reconciliation anymore. It’s time for him to be a man of action, regardless of what she decides.
Either way it will help him figure out how to work on his own relationship issues. And that will help him in the future in all his close relationships…even with his daughters.
How do I know this? I’ve been exactly where he is. I had to realize I couldn’t change her. So I worked on myself. Mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically. Ten years later I now have a wonderful new wife. And I’m a much better man for her. And for my kids.
Posted on 5/31/23 at 8:53 pm to ArmyHogs
Glad to read this!
Posted on 5/31/23 at 8:59 pm to ArmyHogs
Everyone deals with it differently. If she left me, then why would I want to be with her? Good riddance. If I left her, then good riddance. And BTW I’ve been on both ends unfortunately
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