re: Would you say that your hobbies make your life bearable?

My hobbies and interests - and, relatedly, the constant research behind those interests - gives immense value to my life. I enjoy my job, although it is stressful, and I love my family, although family pressures can at times be overwhelming (childcare, expenses, school, etc.). The time I spend on my hobbies and interests is what I relate to and allows me to express some measure of individuality. The only downside is that at times I feel like my hobbies and interests drive me more than anything else, so I think it is important to try to have some perspective. You woodworking hobby should not impede your time with your kids.

Skiing, for me, is a hobby and an interest. Most important thing is going on ski trips and skiing. But during the rest of the year, I research and document where to go, new gear, I read books about the subject, read / watch videos to learn new techniques, climb in the offseason to work on mountaineering aspects, keep in physical shape and work out, I also enjoy photography and always bring my camera, etc.

This is time on the margins that helps me to destress. I do not understand how people do not have hobbies or interests.