re: Getting financially screwed in divorce

Yes I could see the Roth and pension contributions being split evenly if i was the only worker and she was a stay at home mom. Or even if she worked part time.

But the case is we both worked full time. The entire marriage. The same job. I just had more experience and pay and saved.

To come for that portion now is completely immoral. And completely legal.

In these states, the millisecond you marry someone who doesn't save or have as much saved away prior to the marriage.....you are at a complete financial disadvantage and outleveraged.

Just be careful out there folks.

I do have 2 beautiful kids from it, and at the same time they don't deserve this drama. It is hard on them and it breaks my heart to see that.