re: Getting financially screwed in divorce

This is not true.

My soon to be ex is obsessed beyond belief with out kids.

She just wants to play supermom because that's what she knows from her upbringing.

And I was in retrospect naive in thinking she would appreciate a good husband and father in the family.
Instead....she had no clue what that was like and with liberal lesbian friends (ugly btw) in her ear with ho husband's of their own and childless.....and her toxic mother around....it was a confluence of things that ended this.

I couldn't stop it no matter what.

There was no cheating. There was literally zero time for that with the kids schedules.