re: Getting financially screwed in divorce

I should have had a prenup. Now that I have gone through it ...I believe they should be mandatory.

I also should have been more willing to divorce her despite the kids. I believed I was doing the noble thing. Maybe it was just enabling her because she knew I wouldn't leave because of the kids. So at some level she took advantage of that and was never in a position where she needed to change.

Venting to the OT. Not my style. But there are some good gems of advice out there.

I am a great Dad. I just will be stuck having her crazy arse as a co parent.

Time to make money and create a better life despite a giant financial setback and a lifestyle change.

She makes bank outta this deal. And she has been the major problem this whole time. This irks me.

I will let it go. But hard when she is hovering.