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re: Does Your Wife Still Have The Same Qualities You First Fell In Love With?
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:20 am to Scientific73
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:20 am to Scientific73
People don't change all that much. Yes, they have experiences over life that mold them somewhat and they mature somewhat (mainly in the ability to view things outside of themselves or have better self-introspection), but at their core, they are who they are by age 18ish.
What changes in a marriage are the idiosyncrasies and peccadillos about the spouse that were once cute and unique...no longer are after 20 years. On both sides. It's how we deal with that change within ourselves that determines how unhappy or happy the rest of life with that person is going to be.
What changes in a marriage are the idiosyncrasies and peccadillos about the spouse that were once cute and unique...no longer are after 20 years. On both sides. It's how we deal with that change within ourselves that determines how unhappy or happy the rest of life with that person is going to be.
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Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:28 am to Colonel Angus
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but at their core, they are who they are by age 18ish.
I agree to some extent, but believe it’s a lot later than 18. Nearly all of my major life experiences took place in late 20s to early 30s.
If you never leave your small town or city, maybe its early 20s, but if you move, travel, change careers — it could be a lot later (early / mid-30s).
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:30 am to Colonel Angus
quote:I have extremely little in common with the person I was at 18.
, they are who they are by age 18ish.
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