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re: The goal of many Gen Z and millennial women is now to be a DINK—dual income and no kids

Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:26 pm to
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
4226 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:26 pm to
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The wrong people are doing all the repopulating.

Accurate. I wonder if other countries are like this or just US
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
84304 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:28 pm to
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My youngest is a HS senior. It’s not like this is the ancient past.


For cost of living, it absolutely is.
Posted by Byron Bojangles III
Member since Nov 2012
51700 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:29 pm to
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The wrong people are doing all the repopulating.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2921 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:30 pm to
The goal of women is to be a housewive/kept woman without actually having to do work associated with that.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106685 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:31 pm to
Oh shite. I’m still doing it wrong.

Thank god the ot is here to educate me.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48919 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:36 pm to
Where can I sign up?
Posted by SwampGar
Texas
Member since Jan 2020
900 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:37 pm to
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Good, purge them from the gene pool.


You are a real special unhinged feller. General statements like this blow my mind, and expose the intelligence of the one saying them/agreeing with them. Because general blanket statements like this are based on a biased pre conceived notion that do not actually carry weight in reality across the board.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106685 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:38 pm to
Right? Now that I know that is the goal, I need to hurry up and be a kept woman. Plenty of time for ponies that way!
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26651 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:38 pm to
Boomers:

“We’ve made it too expensive to own a home, car prices are out of control, food costs both in restaurants and at grocery stores have spiked, and your pay has remained relatively stagnant.”

“WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU CAN’T AFFORD TO HAVE A CHILD??? I HAD THREE KIDS BY THE TIME I WAS 25!”
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68926 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:38 pm to
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45% of millennial women are not following the “traditional” societal timelines of getting married, buying a home, and having kids.


but complain about not having money.


My parents had two incomes and had kids.


These women approaching 40 with one income... i cant afford an apt in NY, wah. I shouldn't have to have a roommate at age 40.





This post was edited on 5/3/24 at 2:39 pm
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
4226 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:42 pm to
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My youngest is a HS senior. It’s not like this is the ancient past.


For cost of living, it absolutely is


Exactly! My youngest is a junior in HS so I can relate but this guy is way off on his COL increases in the last 3-4 years. To put it simply, You're paying at least double for starter homes now than you were 15-16 years ago. Same for goceries, fuel, etc. And salaries (at least in my industry) have increased maybe 15% over the same time.
The market conditions for young families is nothing like 15 years ago.
Posted by Byron Bojangles III
Member since Nov 2012
51700 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:42 pm to
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My parents had two incomes and had kids.


my wife and i together make more money than my parents did at our ages right now. my parents had 3 kids and had more disposable income than we do with 1 kid just because of the cost of living.

interest rates are so out of control used car loans are predatory
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35558 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:47 pm to
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People simply don’t want to give up their 4 times a year vacations and new cars to have children. And that’s ok, but why act like you couldn’t cut back and afford it?


It’s probably also the several thousand you have to pay to deliver a baby at a hospital and the 800-1200 per month (on the low end) for daycare.


Not everyone wants to be a sahm.

Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4291 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:47 pm to
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My youngest is a HS senior. It’s not like this is the ancient past. My wife and I were DINKs in the early 2000s. She was a bank manager, I was a junior network engineer. We made equal income and she quit her job. We moved to the boonies where schools weren’t dangerous and housing was cheaper. We definitely sacrificed.


You can never explain this to folks who do not want to understand.

Their explanation will always be rising costs but never needs versus wants.

Its that simple. They factor in needs as necessities then complain about things "costing" more.

Cost and spend are two totally different things.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
4955 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:53 pm to
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the OT: We hate


i simplified it for you.
This post was edited on 5/3/24 at 3:58 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:54 pm to
This the daily woman hating thread Aspy? There are so many now I lose track which one is the official one of the day

Silly me
Posted by Beauw
Blanchard
Member since Sep 2007
3513 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 2:55 pm to
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You are a real special unhinged feller. General statements like this blow my mind, and expose the intelligence of the one saying them/agreeing with them. Because general blanket statements like this are based on a biased pre conceived notion that do not actually carry weight in reality across the board.


Your pseudo-intellectual response is laughable and doesn't make sense. If Gen-Z and millenneal women, want to forego having kids because they are "prioritizing their careers and finances over having children" , that is fine with me, but it is extremely selfish. I am not advocating purging them, they are purging themselves.
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
4226 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 3:00 pm to
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They factor in needs as necessities then complain about things "costing" more.

Cost and spend are two totally different things.

It's not easy for anyone to reduce the comfort level they're accustomed to. People aren't willing to raise children with less than they had or to reduce their own accustomed comforts. Nobody wants to take a step back simply for procreation. Like I said earlier, I think it's short-sighted but it's definitely a problem.
This post was edited on 5/3/24 at 3:03 pm
Posted by DakIsNoLB
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2015
587 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 3:02 pm to
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Its that simple. They factor in needs as necessities then complain about things "costing" more.


I think you need an edit here. Needs are necessities.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106685 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 3:03 pm to
I’m learning what I’m supposed to be doing. These threads are always very helpful to me. Sometimes I get contradicting info, though
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