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re: The goal of many Gen Z and millennial women is now to be a DINK—dual income and no kids

Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:27 pm to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:27 pm to
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Much like with their affinity for tattoos, these youngish women will one day become old women who regret placing their own personal comforts over motherhood.


Or maybe just maybe ……they just enjoy the life path they have chosen.


Posted by SW2SCLA
We all float down here
Member since Feb 2009
22822 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:37 pm to
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Or maybe just maybe ……they just enjoy the life path they have chosen.



The audacity of women embracing their autonomy. Only insecure men are threatened by that
Posted by Saunson69
Member since May 2023
1924 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:40 pm to
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Meanwhile our county has sunk to a reproduction level that cannot sustain itself.



I actually like this because it means less people, less demand for houses, same supply. Prices go down on houses.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:41 pm to
I didn’t choose to be childless. But I’ve certainly made the best of the cards I was dealt.

Posted by SW2SCLA
We all float down here
Member since Feb 2009
22822 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:45 pm to
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I didn’t choose to be childless. But I’ve certainly made the best of the cards I was dealt.



Same. You have to make the best out of what life throws your way. How you respond matters more than whatever happened
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
5323 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:53 pm to
DINK is the best lifestyle.

Love it, live it
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 7:57 pm to
I have moments too when I realize I would be 46 and single with a 4 year old (and coparenting with a horrible person) if IVF had worked. And that sounds absolutely exhausting to me now
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2922 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 8:04 pm to
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All I can tell you is this, you can never have more time. If you want another one do it sooner rather than later. The world needs good people to have children, because the not so good people are having plenty


I probably will but that last 3 years have been hell on our family between inflation and graduate school. Had to sell a car and lay off an employee so I could keep my business afloat and pay for my wife's school.
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
58194 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 8:09 pm to
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having dual income with a partner but no children.


They are more into murdering their kids in the womb
This post was edited on 5/3/24 at 8:09 pm
Posted by PikesPeak
The Penalty Box
Member since Apr 2022
562 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 8:31 pm to
Nature will prevail. Always has.
Posted by ForeverEllisHugh
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
14863 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:12 pm to
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Shexter


Part of the ship part of the crew I see
Posted by RAB
Member since Aug 2019
991 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:21 pm to
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Or maybe just maybe ……they just enjoy the life path they have chosen.


Sure. More power to them. I’m only saying that at some point things aren’t as shiny as they once were. Then right after that menopause hits, the body starts to wear out, and the next thing you know, some “special nephew” is your power of attorney responsible for choosing the nursing facility where you’ll spend the remainder of your cognizant months bemoaning your meaningless existence.
This post was edited on 5/3/24 at 9:23 pm
Posted by saintsfan1977
West Monroe, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
7792 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:21 pm to
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The OT: We hate people who have kids that they can’t financially support.

Also the OT: We hate people who won’t have kids because they aren’t financially stable enough.


And people still come here for advice. Schizophrenics make more sense sometimes.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
4152 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:21 pm to
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Nearly one-third of the millennial women surveyed said that the eye-watering sums which come with fertility treatment, egg freezing, adoption, and surrogacy are what has kept them from family planning.
This is what happens when you watch your prime fertility years dwindle away and wait till your 30s to start trying.
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
6821 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:25 pm to
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Nearly one-third of the millennial women surveyed said that the eye-watering sums which come with fertility treatment, egg freezing, adoption, and surrogacy are what has kept them from family planning.


Apparently those in the bold group have never heard of sex with a male counterpart or are lesbians.

A third of millennial women are between 38-43 right now. Also birth control fricks some chicks ability to have kids up
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48861 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:25 pm to
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Kids aren't cheap.


No they aren’t. But as my mother, who had 8 of us, always said “ if you wait until you can afford it you will never have any. You just figure it out.”

And we all have.
Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
799 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:29 pm to
That Arbys photo, cmon now
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79322 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:32 pm to
I care more about what the trends say about us/the culture than the actual not having kids part.

People with less and less skin in the game for the future, which is something that also applies to people with kids who don't prioritize their kids' long term well-being, is going to bear some rotten fruit.
Posted by bad93ex
Member since Sep 2018
27351 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:34 pm to
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A third of millennial women are between 38-43 right now. Also birth control fricks some chicks ability to have kids up


…but don’t you worry about kids getting hormone blockers and other synthetic hormones because it is completely reversible right?
Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
799 posts
Posted on 5/3/24 at 9:37 pm to
They have also been eating from a food supply that is destroyed by hormones etc.

There is something very wrong with the number of people I know who have had to use IVF. Clearly - there is something wrong but people act like IVF is just normal now.
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