re: Wife is mad because I won't go to in laws twice in three weeks

She’ll remember this when she gets their inheritance. You won’t get a penny. Seems not worth the battle. You don’t have to stay at their house the whole time. You can go to movie by yourself, play golf, whatever your hobby is.

On the other hand it is a little weird that you say y’all drive 12 hours every 5 weeks (as well as holidays) or so to see them and y’all don’t have kids. What can you possibly visit about and do that often that you can’t do on the phone