re: Is it me or is the swinger movement growing like crazy?

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That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.

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I disagree 100%. If you act like it’s ok they will convince themselves that you don’t care and are neglecting them. Which will lead to them assuming you are cheating. With that justification they will be open to all sorts of manipulation that ultimately leads to them getting raw dogged by Jody.

Obviously there is a line between overprotective paranoid jealousy but having firm boundaries will not lead to her having affair. It won’t necessarily keep her from having an affair if she’s so inclined but no way it causes an affair.