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Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:28 pm to
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64321 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:28 pm to
Let it go. If she really wants you, she'll come to you and she'll stay. Don't rush to find someone else, but don't close yourself off to the possibility. If she does come back, be stand offish. Agree, but don't let her think you're just waiting around for her.

That's the best advice I have.
Posted by Circle K Beggar
Somewhere in the lower 48
Member since Feb 2011
6167 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:31 pm to
quote:

I need some honest relationship advice


asking the OT for relationship advice is like asking Miss America contestants about car maintenance
Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
36384 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:31 pm to
I've been in a very similar situation. Once you guys separate for distance; you can only hope that you can become a dude that she will miss and want to be get back with you... you can't force it.

Good luck.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129079 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:33 pm to
Like others have said...after 3 years she should know what the hell she wants.


Move on, us women are all a lil crazy...but damn, you don't have to settle for that level of crazy.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16243 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:33 pm to
It honestly sounds like she has another guy she's talking to. Don't be her backup plan.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
66335 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:33 pm to


Or-

Tell her to invite her sister(s) and/or mom into y'all's communal bed and then make her to "prove her feelings" for you by doing them.

(Insert 70s porn music here......)



This post was edited on 11/25/14 at 9:35 pm
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
32249 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:37 pm to
quote:

i nes some hinest relationship advice
youve come to the right place
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11636 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:39 pm to
How does this relate to Fergueson?
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:42 pm to
It sounds like she is just keeping you around to keep her options open. If she wanted to be with you, she would be with you. You are on her back burner. Leave her alone.
Posted by saturday
Pronoun (Baw)
Member since Feb 2007
7146 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:59 pm to
I truly believe you're the backup plan. Something better came up for her to change her mind like that. Move on.
Posted by Ghostfacedistiller
BR
Member since Jun 2008
17500 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:01 pm to
You had another crappy thread earlier.

Didnt read but leave if she's not putting out
Posted by Weaver
Madisonville, LA
Member since Nov 2005
27750 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:08 pm to
Piihb

Hookers and blow
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:16 pm to
If she really means that much to you then try to meet her in the middle. Honestly, work with her.

Made the mistake myself in January, dumb fricking mistake.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:20 pm to
You need to tell her she needs to decide. Is she scared of something? Give her confidence. Give her like a week to think about it and see what she does. If she says no or doesn't respond, move on.
Posted by Jwodie
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2009
7223 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:28 pm to
Here's some - stop being a poof and go smash some new puss.
Posted by RGJ18
Collierville, TN
Member since Feb 2010
8754 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:50 pm to
Probably been said by now, but run.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68540 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:56 pm to
Either ignore her or tell her that y'all are better off friends until she makes her mind up. Don't get caught up in your emotions.
Posted by TexasTiger05
Member since Aug 2007
28326 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:22 am to
I'd move on from her. My now husband and I were long distance for the first 3 years of our relationship. I did anything I could to come home as much as possible to be with him, so if she's canceling plans and being wishy washy about meeting up then she's not the one for you.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76862 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:23 am to
Give her herpes. My ex has some if you want
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
28663 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:45 am to
She's stringing you along. Don't let her. Be frank with her and tell her she either commits to you in full or she should stop saying those sorts of things to you.
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