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Better Than Ezra - Desperately Wanting (LSU?)

Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:43 pm
Posted by AlexLSU
Member since Jan 2005
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Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:43 pm
I was looking up the lyrics to this old classic, and came across someone's response to what the song means. Apparently, he believes it's about the Kappa Sigs at LSU. Here's the lyrics and his interpretation. Could this be true? I'm sure some of you are/were in Kappa Sig at LSU.

Lyrics:

Past the road to your house
That you never called home
Where they turned out your lights
Though they say you'll never know

I remember running through the wet grass
And failing a step behind
Both of us never tiring
Desperately wanting

When they pumped out your guts
And filled you full of those pills
You were never quite right
Deserving all the chills
They say the worst is over
Kicked it over and ran
Then they ask what went wrong
When they turn you on again
They turn you on again.

Chorus:
Kick them right in the face
Make them wish they weren't born
And if they bring up your name
Well they'll say you won the war.
Baby burst in the world
Never given a chance
Then they ask what went wrong
When you never had it right

Oh the letters have dropped off
Though they say you got them all
I finally figured out some things you'll never know.
Take back your life and let me inside
We'll find the door if you care to anymore.

I remember running through the wet grass
and falling a step behind
Both of us never tiring
Desperately Wanting.


Interpretation:

by diggit18 on 07-09-2002 @ 11:08:48 PM
Actually, this song is about something else entirely, something a little darker. Kevin Griffen was a Kappa Sigma at Louisiana State University (I've seen his composite pic at the house. Weeiiird...) and this song is about Kappa Sigma (or any fraternity, really, but specific to the LSU Kappa Sigs) pledgeship. I don't want to spend an hour disecting the song line-by-line, but it all adds up in the end if you know certain aspects of Kappa Sig (especially Southern KS) pledgeship. For instance: "Pass the house, that you never call home" (pledges, seen as practically sub-human were (are) constantly reminded that the frat house is the ACTIVE's house and NOT the pledges). The chorus ("I remember running through the wet grass...") comes from a tradition of pledges, on their bid day, running from a certain central place to their respective houses. They wanted to join the fraternity so badly that they never tired, we're always "desperately wanting." You can read the rest of the lyrics with the ample stereotypes of hellish fraternity pledging ("filled you full of those pills", "kick'em right in the face", "make'em wish they weren't born," etc) and it pretty much spells itself out. The part about "the letters have dropped off" is a reference to another LSU tradition that I don't fully understand (tho I have heard brothers from the chapter mention it), but the "letters" are clearly the Greek ones. Asking what went wrong when u never had it right.. is a reference to the fact that pledges are never right and, most fittingly, "finally figured ouy some things you'll never know" refers to initiation and finally learning the Ritual, which, of course, no one outside of the fraternity will ever know. Much of the rest of the lyrics are symbolic references ("the door", etc) to other pledging things. Damn, looks like i did take and hour. Oh well. OF COURSE you must recognize that I am slightly biased (as are all Kappa Sigs) in this reading of the song, but it has been reported that Kevin himself has admitted that the song is about just this. However, as Dennis Miller says: "That's just my opinion. I could be wrong." Thanks for listening.
Posted by lsumoose
Member since Feb 2008
1188 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:45 pm to
I've heard that too, not sure if it was true though.
Posted by KGSoloMan5000
Member since Mar 2007
1685 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:46 pm to
Every Kappa Sig thinks that every BTE songs is about Kappa Sig. Same thing is always said about Good and Circle of Friends.
Posted by Hat Tricks
Member since Oct 2003
28772 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:47 pm to
I have a few friends that are kappa sigs and they have always told me this.
Posted by PrinceAlbert
Europa
Member since Dec 2007
319 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:47 pm to
who cares. gay band. gay group of kids.
Posted by LSUChicageaux
Member since Aug 2004
8260 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:48 pm to
Reba McEntire's "Fancy" is about Chi Omega rush.
Posted by Rocket
Member since Mar 2004
61117 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:52 pm to
It is
Posted by AlexLSU
Member since Jan 2005
25341 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:53 pm to
quote:

who cares. gay band. gay group of kids.


I'm not much of a frat guy myself, but I liked BTE back in the day. Apparently the lead single was a KS, so...
Posted by lsumoose
Member since Feb 2008
1188 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:53 pm to
quote:

Reba McEntire's "Fancy" is about Chi Omega rush.


Posted by KGSoloMan5000
Member since Mar 2007
1685 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:53 pm to
Hold on. I have to wikipedia "Fancy" before I even think of trying a witty comeback.
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
91953 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:54 pm to
quote:

who cares. gay band. gay group of kids.



I care.

I'm not gay.

Nobody I know who likes them is gay.


Although I'm sure the have quite the following in that community.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77217 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:54 pm to
I think Motorhead is for the deke's.

Posted by TIGERSandFROGS
Member since Jul 2007
3809 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:56 pm to
Heard them playing it live at the Zurich on Sunday


But I think that guy is hearing what he wants to hear, and that if it was about Kappa Sig pledgeship, they would say for sure.
Posted by joechristoppher77
Ruston
Member since Apr 2006
5365 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 10:58 pm to
Just to be PC...its fraternity, not frat. Its a word you dont shorten or abbreviate, like the word country, you wouldn't call it a count...
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
91953 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 11:00 pm to
quote:

Just to be PC...its fraternity, not frat.





quote:

like the word country, you wouldn't call it a count...



DUH!

Everybody knows it's coun...


America is one kick arse coun!
Posted by LSUChicageaux
Member since Aug 2004
8260 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 11:00 pm to
quote:

Just to be PC...its fraternity, not frat. Its a word you dont shorten or abbreviate, like the word country, you wouldn't call it a count...

What in the shite-tarts are you talking about?
Posted by TIGERSandFROGS
Member since Jul 2007
3809 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 11:01 pm to
quote:

Just to be PC...its fraternity, not frat. Its a word you dont shorten or abbreviate, like the word country, you wouldn't call it a count...


I hope you're being facetious and making fun of the fratastic douche bags that say that kind of shite to people for using the word frat.
Posted by joechristoppher77
Ruston
Member since Apr 2006
5365 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 11:03 pm to
I was just bored and messin around... I remember acting so serious in college and giving a huge spill as pledge trainer about this to the incoming pledges and how serious they took me...Oh well, it had to be done, as was also done to me and my pledge brothers.
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
91953 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 11:04 pm to
quote:

I was just bored and messin around...



Thank God!


quote:

Oh well, it had to be done, as was also done to me and my pledge brothers.




Well, as long as you got through it without having to rape a goat.

Some of us weren't so lucky.
Posted by drewb808
The top notch
Member since Feb 2007
4893 posts
Posted on 4/1/08 at 11:06 pm to
quote:

I hope you're being facetious and making fun of the fratastic douche bags that say that kind of shite to people for using the word frat.

im in a fraternity and I agree with you here
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