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re: My gf has gained weight and I am no longer attracted to her and wish to break up

Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:23 pm to
Posted by airlinehwypanhandler
Airline Highway
Member since Feb 2019
2130 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:23 pm to
Women get fat when they don't fear their man leaving them.

They are motivated to lose weight when they know they don't have the upper hand on their man.
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
31204 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:23 pm to
quote:

You can eat 500 calories but if you have no metabolism it has no where to go and becomes weight


No way you can get me to believe that you will gain weight eating only 500 calories per day.

Your body will burn more than that daily just existing.
Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
57778 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:28 pm to
Don't be a pussy. Tell her she's getting fat.

She'll either reverse course and shed the weight for your approval or she'll dump your arse.

Either way is a win.

Had a GF that put on 20 pounds over several months. Told her she was getting thick. She quit buying Blizzards and started doing some simple exercise for 20 minutes every day and got hotter than she was when we met.
Posted by adavis
North of I-10
Member since Aug 2007
5820 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:29 pm to
If you care about her, try to figure out what's going on. Women gain weight for a lot of reasons. If you don't care about her, cut her loose and watch for her fb posts from the future weight loss.
Posted by Grievous Angel
Tuscaloosa, AL
Member since Dec 2008
10284 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:58 pm to
quote:

But I don’t want to be mean. She’s gained over 40 pounds in 6 months and I just can’t really stand to look at her much less sex her. I don’t wanna be mean but this is miserable and i feel like if I don’t do it soon I’ll do something horrible like cheat, so what’s an easy way to break it off where I don’t make it about her lardassness?


You said GF. Which isn't wife.

You don't need a reason.
Posted by cj35
Member since Jan 2014
6153 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 7:00 pm to
pics of her lardassness, so we can mock you?
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17165 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 7:02 pm to
quote:

Ok, I REALLY shouldn't have LOLed at that.


I did too.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
19895 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 7:24 pm to
How bout you 2 start working out together?
Posted by pilsnerpusher
Member since Sep 2009
1413 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 8:07 pm to
Cut bait. Let's say you level with her like some suggest and she drops the weight...you're naive if you think it'll be the last time you have that conversation and eventually, after a ring or a kid or two, she'll call you a heartless bastard while she's cramming in another chocolate filled donut.
Posted by Diver Diva
Member since Apr 2019
386 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 8:19 pm to
quote:

She’s gained over 40 pounds in 6 months

If you care about her you should find out if there isn't some kind of health issue. That's a lot of weight.

Assuming there is no medical issue, why don't you buy both of you a gym membership? I'm willing to bet you are not exactly buff.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43084 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 8:25 pm to
quote:

Let's say you level with her like some suggest and she drops the weight...you're naive if you think it'll be the last time you have that conversation and eventually, after a ring or a kid or two, she'll call you a heartless bastard while she's cramming in another chocolate filled donut.


Unless there is a medical issue causing the weight gain, she is gaining the weight because she wants to. He may be able to make her lose weight now but if she wants to be porky, she will eventually go way beyond a muffin-top.

If he marries her, she will wait until they have something worth taking half of, then swell up like her mother.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 8:27 pm to
Why does he have this many upvotes? You know this is Hawgnsincebirth55, right?
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
74884 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 9:21 pm to
quote:

I wish I was. She went from 140 (so already pushing it but I chalked that up to her massive rack) to 180.
quote:

Hawgnsincebirth55
Checks out.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
32689 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 9:23 pm to
While a shallow position you’re in, it is what it is. You don’t love her.

I’d say you owe here the respect of explaining this, but due to not being in love, it’s only be hurtful/mean.

One day you will find the one if you’re lucky.
Posted by lsufan9193969700
Madisonville
Member since Sep 2003
55688 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

Maybe try making her shower before secks

I laughed too hard.
Posted by LSUERDOC
Member since Jul 2013
2608 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:52 pm to
The truth is, there is absolutely nothing you, as a man, can do to get your wife/gf to lose weight. You can try the nice route by suggesting walks or gym or healthy eating but she will get just as offended as if you straight up told her that she needs to lay off the junk food and get off the couch.
The absolute best way to get a woman to lose weight and get fit again is to dump them. They will lose the weight for some unknown (as of yet) guy, but not their husband/bf. They get in a rut and eat and get fat and blame you...that's just their nature.

So, dump the fatty...she will lose the weight and get fit just to spite you.
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
52237 posts
Posted on 5/9/19 at 12:39 am to
If you want her to lose weight, stack these three supplements:

Limitless

Lipodrene elite

Addiphen


This post was edited on 5/9/19 at 12:43 am
Posted by Buckeye Jeaux
Member since May 2018
17756 posts
Posted on 5/9/19 at 1:43 am to
She's sick of you, but pities you. And is binge eating to push you away - to make it your decision

As soon as you leave, she'll drop the weight.
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
52237 posts
Posted on 5/9/19 at 1:47 am to
She’s probably just lazy
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
129891 posts
Posted on 5/9/19 at 5:31 am to
You are a sad individual.
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