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Should a married woman consult with her husband before cutting her hair off?
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:42 am
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:42 am
Woman at my job showed up today with a new short cut. Drastic change in appearance to say the least.
Someone asked if her husband was ok with it, then she stated that he was cool with it, but didn't know about it until after she cut it all off.
Another female said: "You didn't tell him about it?"
Her response was: "Why do I need his permission? It's my hair."
Should the wife be obligated to discuss this with her life partner first?
Someone asked if her husband was ok with it, then she stated that he was cool with it, but didn't know about it until after she cut it all off.
Another female said: "You didn't tell him about it?"
Her response was: "Why do I need his permission? It's my hair."
Should the wife be obligated to discuss this with her life partner first?
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:43 am to Tarik One
Depends on what kind of marriage they have.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:43 am to Tarik One
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Should the wife be obligated to discuss this with her life partner first?
Obligated is a strong word, but she should definitely get his opinion on the matter.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:43 am to Tarik One
Not obligated but she should want to on her own
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:44 am to Tarik One
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Should the wife be obligated to discuss this with her life partner first?
No but she cant be mad if he tells her he hates it.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:44 am to Tarik One
Not "obligated", but kind of puts a dent in the trust factor of the marriage. My wife has been wanting to cut her hair shorter forever (ex air force), and I would never tell her she couldn't, but she still asks if I would be fine with it before doing it.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:44 am to Tarik One
I'd be pissed because I like her long hair so I would have liked a heads up but it certainly is her peregotive.
Plus it makes BJs easier for her.
Plus it makes BJs easier for her.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:44 am to Tarik One
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Should the wife be obligated to discuss this with her life partner first?
No.
However...if I'm drastically changing my hair I'm gonna bounce the idea off my husband to get his reaction to it first.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:45 am to Tarik One
I wouldn't care. Hair grows back.
I don't think I have to worry about this though because my wife is the type that would need some affirmation before doing something like changing her hairstyle.
I don't think I have to worry about this though because my wife is the type that would need some affirmation before doing something like changing her hairstyle.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:45 am to Tarik One
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new short cut
This is the equivalent of a woman saying, "I've given up on trying to look attractive."
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:45 am to Tarik One
I think it's polite to talk to him about it. Yes, it's my body my choice blah blah blah, but I want to be attractive to my partner. Likewise, I'd rather he talk to me before he gets a tattoo or grows a mustache or whatever.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:46 am to Tarik One
Yes because if he bic'd his head and went Telly Savalas, she'd be pissed if not consulted before he did it.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:46 am to Tarik One
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Should the wife be obligated to discuss this with her life partner first?
Hair style, meh.
Actual important things, yes.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:46 am to Tarik One
Having a discussion is different than asking for permission. I've been married a long time and my wife has cut her hair fairly short a few times. We had a discussion about it and I told her I wouldn't be happy about it. She did it anyway. That's how marriage works. Asking for permission is for the kids not the spouse.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:47 am to Tarik One
I'd probably be a little upset. In my opinion, very few women can pull off short hair and still be attractive.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:47 am to Hester Carries
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No but she cant be mad if he tells her he hates it.
this. I've always loved women with long hair and found short hair kind of a turn off. A girl i was dating in college knew that and got her haircut super short, then got mad at me when I didn't like. This was kinda my attitude toward it....It's your hair do what you want but I like what I look...and that looks bad. I wasn't that much of a dick...just honestly said I liked it better the other way and it caused shite.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:49 am to Iron Lion
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Having a discussion is different than asking for permission.
It's amazing to me how often people struggle with that concept
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