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re: Should Louisiana get rid of the no fault divorce?

Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:29 pm to
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:29 pm to
Oh, yeah, the spiritual part. That is a different story.


Ain't shite spiritual about the legal part.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7528 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:31 pm to
I’m pretty happy that my divorce didn’t cost as much as it could have
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
39457 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:31 pm to
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Oh, yeah, the spiritual part. That is a different story.





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Ain't shite spiritual about the legal part.


I agree with you. Too many tactical strategies and planned avoidance once attorneys are involved. All to benefit them.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:33 pm to
Divorces are trashy
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
74417 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:33 pm to
I got to be a spectator to a religious divorce (not catholic/christian) and trust me that will make people think twice about divorce.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
129842 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:33 pm to
Hell no. Mine only cost me 350
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
74417 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:34 pm to
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Divorces are trashy


Classy people keep mistresses
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
12662 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:38 pm to
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The only winners in divorce are the attorneys.
No truer words, ever spoken!

As a person who has went thru a divorce, I can truly admit the lawyers are the dregs of our society. God help you if child custody is an issue! Your own lawyer will call to "check on you", then bill you for the phone call. Ever wonder why so many lawyers go into divorce and child custody law? Lots of money to be made, with no regards to the outcome. Either way, they get paid. I have more respect for personal injury, ambulance-chasing attorneys.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
102139 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:42 pm to
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Personally, I think divorce is one of the most selfish things a person can do. Unless there is physical, verbal, or mental abuse --- or drug or sexual abuse --- or blatant disregard of your marriage vows (adultery), the two people that initially were agreeable to one another should be able to set aside their egos and hurt feelings, and truly listen to one another to attempt to work it out. If you think it's going to be easier with another person, you are mistaken. Everybody brings their own shite to a relationship and unless you fix your own shite, you will continue to be in a shite relationship.


A friend of a friend is a devout Catholic and doesn't believe in divorce. She and her husband haven't shared a roof in more than ten years and in fact he lives in another state. But hey, at least they haven't broken their marriage vows.
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
8057 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 10:45 pm to
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Louisiana should get out of the marriage/divorce business. As all government should.


Exactly.
Posted by midcitycid
Member since Nov 2008
873 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:00 am to
they need to do like the Jhooos do and get a ghet
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
449995 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:00 am to
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Buddys wife cheated on him

Judge still did no fault and she got half the shite

Those are 2 different things.

Community property isn't affected by fault, and almost assuredly wouldn't be by eliminating no fault divorce.

Fault only affects permanent spousal support.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
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Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:03 am to
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Ever wonder why so many lawyers go into divorce and child custody law?

It's an easy area for the lowest level of attorney to be able to practice.

I typically tell my clients that the population of divorce lawyers is stratified into 2 groups: the cheap option that's the literal lowest level of attorney, and the expensive option that has very good/capable attorneys, but will run 5-figures, minimum (most here require a 7500-8000 initial deposit).

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The only winners in divorce are the attorneys.

I also tell my clients this.

I do primarily uncontested or lightly contested divorces and I almost always suggest they go to a mediator before filing to see what can be worked out for a few hundred dollars. The ones who are able (it takes 2 to tango) pretty much never regret it.
Posted by Jester
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
34702 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:06 am to
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The GOP is going to fumble away its supermajority with stupid shite like this.

Add this to Dodie Horton's In God We Trust bill.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1775 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:11 am to
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Why


Because the wife can be a drug using cheater and the husband ends up paying her after the divorce. She was obviously "at fault" but it doesn't matter in Louisiana.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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103837 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:12 am to
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I do primarily uncontested or lightly contested divorces and I almost always suggest they go to a mediator before filing to see what can be worked out for a few hundred dollars. The ones who are able (it takes 2 to tango) pretty much never regret it.


I considered going into mediation after my Bachelors. They make pretty good money but they see a lot of burnout.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
31898 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:24 am to
Marriage should just be treated as a contract between two adults
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2664 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:36 am to
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Buddys wife cheated on him

Judge still did no fault and she got half the shi


divorce and partition are two different things. the punishment for being at fault is you cannot collect spousal support. fault has no effect on ownership, and rightfully so.

i know redneck dow operators scream "she cheated and got half my shite." The truth is that she got her half of the shite.
Posted by KillTheGophers
Member since Jan 2016
6576 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 7:47 am to
The state of Louisiana punishes men no matter the divorce situation.

Until men get equality and fair treatment in divorce courtrooms, the entire system can suck it.

Posted by PennyPacker
Where things are bigger and better
Member since Jan 2010
1045 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 8:06 am to
The divorce should be agreed to before marriage... just like how to dissolve a business when it starts. So, agree to what happens in adultry... agree to custody before kids... agree to any scenario you can foresee arising. The two people are the most loving and giving at that point... this might actually reveal more about your future spouse than you thought. Unfortunately this isn't happening, but it should.
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