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When people can’t put their pet down when the pet is suffering

Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:30 am
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
13358 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:30 am
My 80 y.o. dad has a 13 y.o. Pug that he can’t put down. The dog is blind,deaf and now its back legs won’t work. All the dog does is whimper all day long because it knows my dad will eventually pick it up and take it outside to basically lay there. He keeps getting shots in its back legs thinking it will work. And of course it doesn’t. He keeps paying 72 per shot. He is super attached to his dog and won’t put it down even though it’s suffering. Any tips on what I can say or do?
This seems to be a problem with a lot of people across America. If the animal is no profit and is not having the best life, it’s time to put it down. Don’t worry about your own tears. Worry about the pet!!!
This post was edited on 12/10/23 at 9:31 am
Posted by DomincDecoco
of no fixed abode
Member since Oct 2018
10905 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:31 am to
Man that's terrible....definitely not before Christmas
Posted by Northshoretiger87
Member since Apr 2016
3730 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:31 am to
It’s America. I can decide how my pet goes. You can euthanize, and I can let mine go peacefully in my arms in the night. Frick off, Karen.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63191 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:31 am to
Sounds like you're mad that your dad loves the dog more than you.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166497 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:32 am to
Mind your business, it’s just a dog.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38818 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:32 am to
Dad thinking it is his last dog


Promise to adopt new one?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136842 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:32 am to
It's a cry for help.

Don't put your dad out to pasture like you think needs to be done with the dog.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30354 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:33 am to
dude, if that dog still brings joy to your dad's life, just let it be.

it may be the thing that still gives your dad reason to get up in the mornings.
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3558 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:36 am to
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it’s just a dog.




I guess ur just trolling, but ill bite.. i have seen many , many terrible takes on TigerDroppings . Com.. . but yours might be the worst.. Get a grip pal .
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
15935 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:36 am to
We have a dog that has been fighting cancer for two years. She still goes for walks and eats her food, still happy to see us. But i know she is in a lot of pain. My wife doesnt think its time yet, but she probably never will.
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
13358 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:36 am to
He talks to it like it is a person, so it definitely brings him joy, but he needs to think about the dog

And to the other question that was asked, yes this is his last pet (so he says)
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30354 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:39 am to
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but he needs to think about the dog



you need to think abt your dad. You shouldn't even have an opinion on it.

maybe, just maybe, you could help him with the dog somehow. take it to the vet, or buy it a nice comfy bed or some treats.

Posted by NorthGwinnettTiger
Member since Jun 2006
51837 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:41 am to
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My 80 y.o. dad


I'd put him down tbh.
Posted by jbird7
Central FL
Member since Jul 2020
5255 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:45 am to
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And to the other question that was asked, yes this is his last pet (so he says)


Doesn’t have to be. He could adopt a nice senior dog from the shelter. Would be perfect for him.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71489 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:46 am to
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We have a dog that has been fighting cancer for two years. She still goes for walks and eats her food, still happy to see us. But i know she is in a lot of pain. My wife doesnt think its time yet, but she probably never will.


That's a tough one. Personally I don't think I could put an animal through chemo, so much pain and they just don't have the capacity to understand.

Had two dogs die of cancer, one we made the decision not to go the chemo route after the first tumor, second we made the decision, but dogs brain literally melted before we even could tell the vet.
This post was edited on 12/10/23 at 9:47 am
Posted by LSU5508
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2007
3618 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:48 am to
A vet once told me one of the saddest things about putting an animal down is that the owners often don’t want to be in the room. So in the moment of the pets last breath when they are terrified they’re on a steel table with just the vet. if you’re going to do it I’d recommend having the vet come to your house and being there with the pet while it happens. I did this many years back and to this day It still brings me some joy that I was there for him in that moment. I’l
Posted by L1C4
The Ville
Member since Aug 2017
13234 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:50 am to
Ask the vet to have a talk with your dad?
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
1437 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:55 am to
Is it possible to get him a new dog? Not a puppy, maybe a 3 or 4 year old dog? His dog may be the last thing that brings him joy and constant companionship. If he’s not going to euthanize, maybe look for ways to help improve the dog’s quality of life. They have pet wheelchairs/walkers if that might help. Also “halos” for blind dogs that go around their heads to keep them from running into things. If it’s feasible financially, check into physical therapy for the dog.

I get these things are probably outlandish, just trying to think of things that can help your dad and his dog. .
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3558 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:58 am to
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A vet once told me one of the saddest things about putting an animal down is that the owners often don’t want to be in the room. So in the moment of the pets last breath when they are terrified they’re on a steel table with just the vet. if you’re going to do it I’d recommend having the vet come to your house and being there with the pet while it happens. I did this many years back and to this day It still brings me some joy that I was there for him in that moment.





Very true.. having to put my beloved dog down was one of the hardest things ive ever had to do.. but the fact that i was able to be in the room with him at the vet’s office (it all happened too suddenly to arrange a home visit) while petting him and comforting him was a huge silver lining for me, and still makes the whole deal a little easier for me to process.. i cant imagine my boy having to be there alone at the very end, after all we went through together over the years, and how many times he stuck by my side through the ups and downs of life .
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4648 posts
Posted on 12/10/23 at 9:59 am to
Get dad hammered and tell him it's time to man up.
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