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Youths complaining about a lack of "third places" lately
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:27 am
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:27 am
It seems like in the last couple years everyone under the age of 30 discovered the term "third place" which refers to a location that's not work or home where people socialize. It's the button Gen Z pushes to sound sophisticated. Parks, libraries, bowling alley, church coffee shops, social clubs, et al. Young people lament that society is collapsing because they don't have another place to gather in anymore.
The thing that I don't get is that all these places still exist and they just choose not to go to them. So they're just complaining about not taking advantage of the resources available.
The thing that I don't get is that all these places still exist and they just choose not to go to them. So they're just complaining about not taking advantage of the resources available.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:31 am to Thundercles
Your mom likes it in her third place.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:36 am to Thundercles
third places get turned to absolute shite by the public. think of all the fun places when we were younger. hang out at the mall, astroworld for vacation, local parks and hang outs. culture and vandalism closes those places down or makes them undesirable.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:41 am to Thundercles
Adults have a bar and that's that.
Go to Europe. Every neighborhood has a pub or beer garden within two blocks. You can't throw a dead cat and not hit one.
I wish we had that here, outside of New Orleans, so I wouldn't have to drive home from mine.
Go to Europe. Every neighborhood has a pub or beer garden within two blocks. You can't throw a dead cat and not hit one.
I wish we had that here, outside of New Orleans, so I wouldn't have to drive home from mine.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:44 am to Thundercles
Maybe they are referring to places affected by cultcha?
Ex: Super Bowl Championship Celebrations
Ex: Super Bowl Championship Celebrations
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:45 am to High C
The neighborhood country club seems like a good idea, but they just aren’t popular.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:46 am to poochie
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third places get turned to absolute shite by the public.
This is the main issue. Most people are trash now and have no respect for other people or their property.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:49 am to Thundercles
My 3rd and 4th places were destroyed by Dora the Explorer during her COVID reign of terror.
Now I just have the golf club.
Now I just have the golf club.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:50 am to Thundercles
I think it's more a problem with technology and society. Everyone is so unapproachable these days. People have their faces buried in their phones and/or ear buds in their ears.
People in public places all put out this vibe that says "leave me the frick alone" most of the time.
People in public places all put out this vibe that says "leave me the frick alone" most of the time.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:51 am to Thundercles
I'm sure third places are not quite as prominent as they used to be, but mostly I'm with you. They're there. The younger generations just don't go.
Bar I went to last night was packed to the gills. Just with older people who enjoy bars and not younger people who never got into them.
I definitely could see private clubs/country clubs on the decline. The place we go is absolutely BEGGING young people to join, to the point where I doubt you even need to be sponsored by a member anymore. Young people just aren't as interested in that stuff for fun, and even young professionals aren't as concerned with rubbing elbows outside of work hours.
Bar I went to last night was packed to the gills. Just with older people who enjoy bars and not younger people who never got into them.
I definitely could see private clubs/country clubs on the decline. The place we go is absolutely BEGGING young people to join, to the point where I doubt you even need to be sponsored by a member anymore. Young people just aren't as interested in that stuff for fun, and even young professionals aren't as concerned with rubbing elbows outside of work hours.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:51 am to BoogaBear
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Your mom likes it in her third place.
Sick, but clever.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:51 am to Thundercles
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because they don't have another place to gather in anymore.
As the stare at their phones,text but never actually "talk" to anybody, stay inside online, do nothing but play video games as a kid (except Braxxson & Jaxxson of course), and celebrate allowing criminals to run free and trash the once nice public spaces....
rant over....
NOW GET OFF MY LAWN!!!!
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:51 am to poochie
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third places get turned to absolute shite by the public. think of all the fun places when we were younger. hang out at the mall, astroworld for vacation, local parks and hang outs. culture and vandalism closes those places down or makes them undesirable.
Exactly this.
Where would I go to hang out?
Even church basketball courts have shootings.
There are still active third places around. You pay money to attend them at a country club.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:52 am to Thundercles
The brewery boom was great for this. Packed with singles, families, etc.
Often outside, and often with little to do other than socialize with neighbors.
ETA: And they're often unremarkable or even dumpy, which makes them completely unattractive to the crowds that end up exchanging gunfire in the parking lot. In the Southeast, the flashier the communal space, the more likely it'll be on the nightly news. People from other parts of the country don't understand this at all.
Often outside, and often with little to do other than socialize with neighbors.
ETA: And they're often unremarkable or even dumpy, which makes them completely unattractive to the crowds that end up exchanging gunfire in the parking lot. In the Southeast, the flashier the communal space, the more likely it'll be on the nightly news. People from other parts of the country don't understand this at all.
This post was edited on 2/16/24 at 9:56 am
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:53 am to Thundercles
Recent Generations are gigantic doucherockets...
More News at 9
More News at 9
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:53 am to Thundercles
Gyms are always good. If you want to avoid culcha, you just have to go to one expensive enough to keep undesirables out. Those $10/month places will be covered up in thugs just there to play basketball and cause problems.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:54 am to StringedInstruments
There are places like this all over every town in America.
It’s called a church.
It’s called a church.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:54 am to extremetigerfanatic
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There are places like this all over every town in America. It’s called a church.
On the decline thanks to our society’s insistence on secularism.
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:55 am to Pettifogger
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The brewery boom was great for this. Packed with singles, families, etc.
Often outside, and often with little to do other than socialize with neighbors.
Agreed. Bringing your kids or dogs to an outdoor beer garden is great. It's good socialization
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