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Company email: His/her

Posted on 7/12/24 at 5:50 pm
Posted by FizzyPop
350 posts
Member since Jun 2024
394 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 5:50 pm
What the hell is the point of putting your pronouns of his/her after your name in a business email? Just received this from some newbie who replied to all. So you're putting a default pronoun in parenthesis that has already been understood to be a pronoun for thousands of years? This crap makes me irrationally angry, sorry Poli Talk just had to vent for a sec and get your thoughts.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
88923 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 5:53 pm to
I knew my last serious relationship was doomed when my ex got her dream job with a "cool" company and immediately changed her email signature to have "her / hers"
This post was edited on 7/12/24 at 5:54 pm
Posted by Jetstream 2000
Member since Jan 2021
180 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 5:53 pm to
They push that shite in college and new graduates think that’s how the world works. They couldn’t be more wrong.

When you look at emails within academia for the most part everyone uses stupid pronouns.
Posted by deeprig9
2023/24 B2B GSB Riboff Champ
Member since Sep 2012
67030 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:00 pm to
I work with tons of foreigners with funny names and I actually appreciate it in that context.
Posted by Miketheseventh
Member since Dec 2017
6249 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:01 pm to
I would just delete it because that person will never last at a real job for long
Posted by TrueTiger
Chicken's most valuable
Member since Sep 2004
72232 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:01 pm to

I use Smeagol's

Posted by CuyahogaTigerJr
Northeast ohio
Member since Aug 2018
2263 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:07 pm to
quote:

knew my last serious relationship was doomed when my ex got her dream job with a "cool" company and immediately changed her email signature to have "her / hers"
Jesus how fricked are we if we can’t even date… I’d say I feel bad for you but I don’t
Posted by LSUbest
Coastal Plain
Member since Aug 2007
12109 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:09 pm to
Posted by VoxDawg
Glory, Glory
Member since Sep 2012
65195 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:10 pm to
When someone shares their pronouns they're doing the reader a favor.

It's shorthand to tell the reader that they have given them permission to disregard wholesale anything said by the sharer, past, present and future, as it is not to be considered as having come from a serious adult.
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
32493 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:20 pm to
The really dumb (not just insane and evil) aspect is the implication that someone would use one gender pronouns for subject and another for possessive or object.

When he is giving it in some dude’s a-hole, then he is a dude but when he is getting his—sorry “her” arse pounded her arse is a girl’s. Makes sense.
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
32493 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:21 pm to
quote:

It's shorthand to tell the reader that they have given them permission to disregard wholesale anything said by the sharer, past, present and future, as it is not to be considered as having come from a serious adult.


Turn me into the bar but I have ignored many an email from such senders. They’re usually peons so I wait for a higher up with no custom “pronouns” to follow up. Or make my client do it directly.
Posted by Porpus
Covington, LA
Member since Aug 2022
2057 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:21 pm to
quote:

What the hell is the point of putting your pronouns of his/her after your name in a business email? Just received this from some newbie who replied to all. So you're putting a default pronoun in parenthesis that has already been understood to be a pronoun for thousands of years? This crap makes me irrationally angry, sorry Poli Talk just had to vent for a sec and get your thoughts.



We have a "they/them" at work. Pretty exhausting stuff.
Posted by Narax
Member since Jan 2023
388 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:26 pm to
Wait till your boss does it...

Not as funny as you'd think.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
125382 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:29 pm to
I’m going to change my pronouns to gum/baw.
Posted by TerryDawg03
The Deep South
Member since Dec 2012
16635 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:32 pm to
I’d put him/hers just to mess with people.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7187 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:35 pm to
quote:

I knew my last serious relationship was doomed when my ex got her dream job with a "cool" company and immediately changed her email signature to have "her / hers"

C’mon mate. Show us your email signature
Posted by Von
Wichita Falls, TX
Member since Feb 2019
2230 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:48 pm to
quote:

some newbie who replied to all.

LOL, off to a good start there.

We've got a big brain in one of the plants in Mexico that occasionally hits reply all when bitching about a problem in the warehouse there.
Reply all to 20,000+ employees across the globe.

I'm starting to see some pronouns in emails from young middle managers fresh out of college, nobody above or below them.
Posted by ValhallaAwaits
Member since Aug 2021
506 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:53 pm to
Why must you use the name of our Creator and Holy One in your profane remark? Please stop doing that in your life brother.
This post was edited on 7/12/24 at 10:56 pm
Posted by Jbird
In Bidenville with EthanL
Member since Oct 2012
74092 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:55 pm to
A person who volunteers from the VA at an agency I volunteer at has she her
I asked her about it. Her boss says it's required.
Posted by Professor Dawghair
Member since Oct 2021
1326 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 7:09 pm to
me/mine are my preferred pronouns
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