re: Why do people always blame the victim when things happen?

ok first off

why are you not confronting the SIL and your wife's brother? sorry but you need to brush up on your fighting skills because you need to confront all of them in front of the whole family

1) tell the SILs that they are both psychopathic bitches and turn to the husbands and tell them they are cuck little bitches for thinking its ok and then tell the father he is a pussy for allowing someone to harm his daughter and not sticking up for her


2) if BIL says shite, slap the ever living frick out of him. dare her father to say somethign

3) tell her mom, she is a terrible mother for not sticking up for her only daughter

sorry but the whole family needs to be told to frick off to their faces and someone needs to catch hands, might be you that takes the arse whooping, but who cares...i would never ever ever let something like this go without them knowing how i really felt.

like it is baffling to me you have not beat the frick out of the brothers yet

and i would never under any circumstances allow my kids to be around people that think this kind of behavior is ok. enabling is just saying...its ok so screw the grandparents too

look my real mom is a pill head. has been my whole life and abandoned the family when i was just starting middle school. that is psychotic behavior...so i only allow my kids to see her at christmas. only time i see her and its just so i can see the rest of that side of the family.

you need to cut off all ties once you let them know how you feel face to face. and beat the frick out of the BIL and show some balls please. at least slap the dog shite out of him.