re: Why do people always blame the victim when things happen?

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so you teach your kids this behavior is perfectly fine? Physical assault (as adults) is the answer when you feel you have been wronged?

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my feelings are...by taking the cat, they essentially physically harmed my family...in that case, violence is the answer. i teach my kids to stand up for themselves and when bullied, punch the bully in the face. and make no mistake about it, the SILs are bullies.

but i also understand his point as a father, he has a job to keep to provide for the family and fighting is something that could cost him that

if that is the case, im telling them how i feel and family is cutting off all contact