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re: Why do people always blame the victim when things happen?

Posted on 5/17/24 at 10:54 am to
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31575 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 10:54 am to
ok first off

why are you not confronting the SIL and your wife's brother? sorry but you need to brush up on your fighting skills because you need to confront all of them in front of the whole family

1) tell the SILs that they are both psychopathic bitches and turn to the husbands and tell them they are cuck little bitches for thinking its ok and then tell the father he is a pussy for allowing someone to harm his daughter and not sticking up for her


2) if BIL says shite, slap the ever living frick out of him. dare her father to say somethign

3) tell her mom, she is a terrible mother for not sticking up for her only daughter

sorry but the whole family needs to be told to frick off to their faces and someone needs to catch hands, might be you that takes the arse whooping, but who cares...i would never ever ever let something like this go without them knowing how i really felt.

like it is baffling to me you have not beat the frick out of the brothers yet

and i would never under any circumstances allow my kids to be around people that think this kind of behavior is ok. enabling is just saying...its ok so screw the grandparents too

look my real mom is a pill head. has been my whole life and abandoned the family when i was just starting middle school. that is psychotic behavior...so i only allow my kids to see her at christmas. only time i see her and its just so i can see the rest of that side of the family.

you need to cut off all ties once you let them know how you feel face to face. and beat the frick out of the BIL and show some balls please. at least slap the dog shite out of him.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47500 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:05 am to
I don't promote any violence, but I do think the OP should be sticking up for his wife in a big way and having a come to Jesus chat with the family, explaining the damage that has been done and the continuing damage which will come from the actions of the SILs. The dynamic duo has destroyed the family with an action that cannot be undone. Anyone supporting them or suggesting the wife get over it and forgive and forget is subject to no relationship with the couple or future children.
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5547 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:06 am to
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you need to cut off all ties once you let them know how you feel face to face. and beat the frick out of the BIL and show some balls please.


Sometimes being an adult means being emotionally intelligent and knowing when to get in a physical confrontation with someone or when it’s best to handle something in a different way. You have to have mastery of your emotions. Most people fail at this miserably, unfortunately. What my SILs did is an example of that.

If someone attacks your wife or kids in front of you, you jump in and beat the shite out of them and put that to a stop.

In this scenario, if I go attack these people a year after the cat died, they’re going to all jump in and gang up on me. There’s like 8 of them so I won’t stand a chance. Furthermore, they’ll have me arrested for assault and battery if I do this, and I’ll be the one going to jail and losing my job.

I can’t afford to go to jail and lose my job right now. I have a wife and a child on the way relying on me for financial support. I can go around like an immature, emotionally unstable young buck with nothing to lose.
This post was edited on 5/17/24 at 11:10 am
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16268 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:17 am to
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1) tell the SILs that they are both psychopathic bitches and turn to the husbands and tell them they are cuck little bitches for thinking its ok and then tell the father he is a pussy for allowing someone to harm his daughter and not sticking up for her


2) if BIL says shite, slap the ever living frick out of him. dare her father to say somethign

3) tell her mom, she is a terrible mother for not sticking up for her only daughter

Do all of this and make sure someone is videoing it so we can watch it on Worldstar
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23686 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:23 am to
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sorry but you need to brush up on your fighting skills because you need to confront all of them in front of the whole family


the fighting serves no purpose - most of the time that is trailer park and ghetto style. No one needs to "catch hands." You didn't get any peace from that, just drama.

Act as if they have dropped off the face of the earth. No drama, just peace and move on. It works.
Posted by PrettyBird
Aspen
Member since Feb 2010
10361 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:29 am to
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and i would never under any circumstances allow my kids to be around people that think this kind of behavior is ok.


hmm yet....

quote:

someone needs to catch hands, might be you that takes the arse whooping, but who cares
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ike it is baffling to me you have not beat the frick out of the brothers yet


so you teach your kids this behavior is perfectly fine? Physical assault (as adults) is the answer when you feel you have been wronged?

lol do you
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