re: What are women actually attracted to?

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Missed this. The reason you routinely hear discussions about these women's experiences with "bad men" is because they keep choosing to have experiences with these "bad men". You're failing to realize the connection and make it seem as if the men with these characteristics just fall from the sky and magically end up in the opposite chair on a date. Those women choose those men and get those bad experiences and they'll keep choosing those men and keep having those experiences.

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Men pick a woman and hope she never changes, women pick a man and hope they can change him.

Girls don't like boys. Girls like cars and money.

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That’s what women say they want in a relationship, not what they are attracted to. All those traits are actually traits that women find irresistible. A man with those traits will thrive

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It’s the same thing to me. I’m not sure I’m following your point here LSUpimp.

I see “attracted to” and “irresistible” as close synonyms.

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The guys with those negative traits by contrast , are fricking and fricking a lot. Men know this.

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I totally agree with y’all on that. The majority of the younger females I work with complain of how poorly they’re treated by these types of males- but they continue to make themselves available to the to be treated as such.

I just want to shake these young women and tell them to develop some damn self respect.

I don’t think a man will ever respect a woman who doesn’t respect herself first.

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If we are strictly talking about money which we have been, they marry down the vast majority of the time

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Perhaps I see this whole dynamic differently bc the majority of women I am acquainted with are white collar professionals who tend to out earn their husbands.

Women will NEVER EVER admit to the gap between what they are attracted to and what they say they want in a man. If they got the man they claim to want they’d be bored to death in 10 minutes.

My answer earlier about status and it being related to other women finding you attractive is money in the bank.If her girlfriends think you are attractive, you ARE attractive. Women hate this notion because it gets right to their essential nature, but if you just learn that ONE thing as a man you will always be successful with women; women covet men who are attractive to other women. End of story. The end. What women say could not be more irrelevant. The social validation that having a man that is coveted by other women and infers status is THE correct answer, and I don’t care how many angry ladies and blue pilled men whine about it. It’s a biological FACT. It is how evolutionary biology hardwired them. Full stop.

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Damn it, I’m only 6’1

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If you’ve got the other two you are close enough.

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And the more in shape you are the bigger your dick looks!

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Robin you are onto something. I tell people the smaller your waist is the bigger your chest, shoulders, arms etc are going to look. It’s an illusion.

“What are women actually attracted to?”

It seems like they want whatever someone else has and they don’t.

The mistake you are making nurse is you are telling us your opinion of what you think women “ should be” attracted to and what they are actually attracted to.

Women are attracted to a man’s status. Each woman defines it differently. Some want money. Others want the smartest guy. Some have to have a drummer. There is an evolutionary reason for this. It is not a value judgement or an insult. It just is.

Listening to what a woman says she wants is the worst advice you can give a man. I have learned through trial and error to discard anything a woman says she wants. If a woman greets you and says “ thanks for coming by Mr Pimp but I want you to know I don’t feel comfortable having sex tonight”, that means one thing; in an hour we will be intertwined in orgasmic bliss.

All men who are successful with women learn to give women what they want, not what they say they want. And it’s a man’s responsibility to know what she really wants and give it to her. And trust me, the 80% of men who don’t get laid aren’t going to start getting laid by giving a woman whet she says she wants.

Here is what I want today; blue jean shorts and a casserole.