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re: Observations on 50 years of married life (long)

Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:10 pm to
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
8729 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:10 pm to
We are approaching forty.

Figuring out how to cook for a picky eater has been a challenge, but doable.

One club we belonged to had a good mantra for whoever were doing maintenance on the building, cooking for group meals:
Whoever does the work gets to say how it's done.
Posted by farad
Member since Dec 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:12 pm to
you could have sent me this 47 years ago...
Posted by LSUGrad2024
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2023
262 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:12 pm to
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there was also a decade and a half of dating time before the marriage,.


quote:

going on 6 years married with the wife and have our first little one on the way.



Posted by TheOldMan
Red Stick
Member since Sep 2022
324 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:29 pm to
Great post. 43 years for me and the Mrs. Both now recently retired. Enjoying our hobbies and the grandkids. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me. I hit the marriage lottery.
Posted by Trevaylin
south texas
Member since Feb 2019
5967 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:34 pm to
make up sex is the best
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2023 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:38 pm to
Lots of older baws in here. This board really is aging together
This post was edited on 4/3/24 at 6:38 pm
Posted by LSUGrad2024
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2023
262 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 6:41 pm to
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Lots of older baws in here. This board really is aging together


I’m a senior and about to graduate…and pretty sure also the youngest one here.
Posted by TiggerPack5
Member since Feb 2022
64 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 7:01 pm to
Nah, man. I'm also very young. 21, and I graduate college in a month. Lots of great advice that I will keep in mind when the time comes around.
Posted by JimNat
Member since Jan 2020
708 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 7:24 pm to
Married 50 years.
I have been married 41 yrs in May.
Tell yourself this is a commitment to your marriage. There have been some rough waters for me and my Natalie but we worked thru them. It’s worth it though guys knowing I have my girl still.
Posted by RebelExpress38
In your base, killin your dudes
Member since Apr 2012
13594 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 7:33 pm to
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t must have been awesome growing up in a time when marriage was culturally incentivized. Sadly, as a 29yr old I cannot relate. Take care



Imagine being 29 and needing permission from “the culture” to do anything.

Sad.
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
36180 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 7:50 pm to
Mrs Lepew and I make 45 years on the 21st of this month. In all honesty, I wouldn’t be alive without her. She made me become a better person and a better man…
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
4296 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 7:58 pm to
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You must not still live in the South, marriage is still certainly culturally incentivized down here.

That may be true to some degree, but you know what is incentivized even more than marriage? Divorce, and it is especially incentivized for women. As a man who has been married a very long time, our current state of marriage is broken. I recognize times have changed and so has this next generation of men and women. Social media for one is a cancer especially for women. Comparison is the thief of joy.
Posted by South Shore Cyclist
Member since Jul 2023
168 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 7:59 pm to
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Also, 20 years later she will remember the stupid comment you made when you did not practice in your mind beforehand what to say. You will pay for that comment many times over


I lolled. So true. The stuff you say AND the stuff you do (or don’t do.)
Posted by LCBayou
Member since Oct 2016
546 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 8:05 pm to
Been together for 45 years and have definitely been through the ups and downs throughout the years. One thing has remained constant and that is our love for each other and our commitment to make things workout. We now enjoy our three grand kids and have our fourth on the way. Retirement has opened new doors for us with a lot more traveling and much less stress. It's our life long journey and it's a fun ride.
Posted by LSUGrad2024
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2023
262 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 8:24 pm to
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Nah, man. I'm also very young. 21, and I graduate college in a month.


Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68951 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 8:25 pm to
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You must not still live in the South, marriage is still certainly culturally incentivized down here.


The single mothers in LA and MS say otherwise.

Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90911 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 8:59 pm to
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How about just learning to clean up after yourself. Good grief, man, peeing standing up is a gift from God.


My wife and I have separate bathrooms and I am responsible for keeping mine clean or how I want it and she does the same to hers. Saves a lot of trouble
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
18504 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 9:33 pm to
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Remember this, sex eventually leads to children, therefore sex is very expensive emotionally and financially.
Six kids here with 1 wife. You’re correct.
This post was edited on 4/3/24 at 9:35 pm
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10324 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 10:31 pm to
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The most important thing is finances
It should be your spiritual life and helping each other get to heaven. Money is very temporary and short lived.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
6550 posts
Posted on 4/3/24 at 10:43 pm to
Social media for one is a cancer especially for women. Comparison is the thief of joy.
Damn dude, you got it. It doesn't require social media, but women and wussified men let social media throw an anchor around their necks, and just eat drowning, regardless of the impact.
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