re: What percentage of men under 30 are still virgins?

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A 30 year old virgin is a man who's made a choice not to have sex.

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Not necessarily. Given social media and dating apps, sub-5 men aren't even considered human by women. 5 men are banging 2s and 3s. 6 men bang 3s and 4s, etc. 8, 9, and 10 men are taking the lion's share of the 6+ women sexually, even if they're not actually dating or marrying the 6s and 7s. If you're a 1-3 male, you'd better up your game through either finances or fitness, or you will never have a chance at sex without paying for it.

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A 30 year old virgin is a man who's made a choice not to have sex.

They just need to be honest with themselves on why that is.

Women don't like sex with losers.

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I think your first two points were getting there, but I don't agree with your third point, or rather I don't agree that they're losers. It's more complicated than that, and we have to understand the world our boys and girls are growing up in these days.

We used to have to make do with the people around us. Now the whole world is open, and it's much easier to set unreal expectations. Both sexes need to have realistic standards and expectations. Sure, shoot your shot on the 10, but know that's a low percentage move. If you stay in your range, then your odds increase exponentially.

Like, I think my wife is beautiful, and she gets more and more beautiful every day. My wife thinks I'm handsome. We are both hugely attracted to each other, but we are also very honest with each other and ourselves. We both know where we are in the societal beauty standings, and we're both okay with that.

Signed,

An average dude who accepted a long time ago that he was average.