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re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?

Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:57 pm to
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:57 pm to
I’ve had a lot of male counselors talking sense into me
Posted by Pedro
Geaux Hawks
Member since Jul 2008
33734 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:57 pm to
Oh frick this got serious quick
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18687 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:58 pm to
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You’re absolutely right. Which is why I keep dragging out this engagement.


Well in that case you should go have a secret dinner date with the ex.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82081 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:01 pm to
quote:

was saying the fiancée shouldn’t be upset with him just because his ex asked him to dinner

He had no control over that
quote:

Paige
sure you're a woman?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
109449 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:03 pm to
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I was saying the fiancée shouldn’t be upset with him just because his ex asked him to dinner

He had no control over that


The fact that he’s very much considering it should upset her though. It’s clear he’s still in love with her and fully plans on fricking.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25550 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:03 pm to
You are stupid for even considering this. Several things:

1. You care too much about what the ex thinks

2. It’s simple: how would you feel if the situation were flipped?

3. I don’t buy the ‘nothing will happen’ line

When I graduated from LSU, I did so in a funk. I screwed any girl that was down. Some wanted a relationship, some didn’t. I was an a-hole and only cared about myself, and did some regrettable things. I broke down one night, couldn’t stand the guilt of screwing over a girlfriend for an ex, and just decided to quit that sort of lifestyle because it was going to ruin any relationship I was gonna go into.

I’m now engaged. I wouldn’t even consider having dinner with an ex. There’s way to many old feelings that need to stay buried. Staying away from any temptation is the key to not doing anything stupid. That means you need to be smart enough to stay away from that shite. Normally, that’s easy because you care about the one you are with and love. I guess it’s not as easy for you.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62953 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:05 pm to
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She’s 99.9% already cheating on you

Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18839 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:05 pm to
Why are you even in communication with an ex? What’s the point?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:05 pm to
I try not to assume the worst of people

I thought he was just that dumb
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63676 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:06 pm to
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Only a crazy person would get upset with someone for something they had no control over


Like I said. Best to not tell a woman.
Posted by Adam4LSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2008
13760 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:08 pm to
Upvote
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
6628 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:09 pm to
You’re going to bang her. If you’re dumb enough to need or seek advice here, it’s too late for you.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
109449 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:11 pm to
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I try not to assume the worst of people



If your SO is meeting up with his ex, you got another thing coming to think he has good intentions. No man that is loyal to his woman would do that unless he has kids with the ex.
Posted by BigSquirrel
Member since Jul 2013
1880 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:15 pm to
Should prolly bang her if wife’s out of town. She’s doing it.
Posted by Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Lafayette LA
Member since Nov 2005
14089 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:18 pm to
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You aren’t mature enough to get married.


Best answer
Posted by PainTrain4017
Member since Jan 2019
423 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:19 pm to
Ask Tigerstripes06, he has lots of experience dealing with ex boyfriends.
Posted by 4Ghost
Member since Sep 2016
8521 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:23 pm to
Dude, tell her you want nothing more to do with her, then hang up. Do not ever contact her again. Pursue this and your marriage will not make it a year.
Posted by SteveLSU35
Shreveport
Member since Mar 2004
13992 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:26 pm to
If you thought it was a good idea you wouldn't have asked us. Just say, sorry something came up. Nothing good can come of this.
Posted by DmitriKaramazov
Member since Nov 2015
4471 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:27 pm to
You should tell your fiance and then cancel the meeting with your ex. Nothing good can come of this. Unless you are looking to cheat.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20362 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 8:39 pm to
I don’t think you are ready to marry yet chief. You shouldn’t be talking to an Ex in the first place much less planning a dinner when your SO is out of town.
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