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re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:41 pm to BusinessKnight
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:41 pm to BusinessKnight
[ I still love her ]
No you don’t. You love the thought of her. Delete her number from your phone, her friends numbers from your phone, delete her and her friends from your social networks if you are on any. Do not contact her or her friends, in any fashion. Do not ,” creep” on her social networks or her friends. You want to move on? This is how you do it. Start spending free time in nature and excercising.
No you don’t. You love the thought of her. Delete her number from your phone, her friends numbers from your phone, delete her and her friends from your social networks if you are on any. Do not contact her or her friends, in any fashion. Do not ,” creep” on her social networks or her friends. You want to move on? This is how you do it. Start spending free time in nature and excercising.
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Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:42 pm to The Mick
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If I'm reading this correctly, you are now one of her exes...
Maybe he can have sex with her again once she finds a new guy.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:44 pm to BusinessKnight
I feel bad for you. She caused this, but you lowered your standards too much. Hiding anything from you and being cagey should have been enough to know she wasn't someone to marry. All that tracking stuff was unnecessary. You didn't need proof of anything, knowing she wasn't 100% open is enough. Value yourself more or it will happen to you again.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:45 pm to RummelTiger
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Maybe he can have sex with her again once she finds a new guy.
Yep, And then he can learn how the whole 'gas station parking lot thing' is worked out...
Win/win
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:45 pm to BusinessKnight
so you tracked her, got proof of cheating and all you did was nothing and let her stay with you until SHE decided to leave? man you suck.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:45 pm to RummelTiger
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Maybe he can have sex with her again once she finds a new guy.
I've had more fun rejecting ex's than going through with it. My ex wife wanted to do it right after we were granted a divorce, I've never had so much fun saying no to sex.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:46 pm to BusinessKnight
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But, I still love her.
No you don’t.
You love having sex with her.
You love how hot she looks and it makes you feel better about yourself.
What you don’t love is her.
Her lack of honesty.
Her lack of character.
Her selfish mindset.
Her poor boundaries.
Her ability to twist her mistakes into being a victim.
This fiancé of yours is a manipulative and lying woman that is great in bed (because she has had sex with hundreds of people and gotten really good at it).
You should treat her like all the other exes treat her. A good time in bed but not someone you try to spend a lifetime with.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:46 pm to BusinessKnight
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She is a catch.
No she isn’t. Apparently, she was good at catching dick and potentially STDs.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:47 pm to billjamin
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I've had more fun rejecting ex's
I've had a lot of fun hooking up with ex's that wanted to sow a few wild oats right before they were about to get married
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:47 pm to BusinessKnight
If this wasn't all made up, I'd feel kind of bad a laughing at these hilarious responses.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:50 pm to Displaced
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Why did you put up with it for so long? Did you still plan on marrying her?
Hard to understand why I put up with it for so long or didn't throw her out immediately. I've recently learned I am a rescuer and I think deep down she wants to be rescued but cannot help herself. I do think she displays a lot of if not all the traits of a subtle unaware narcissist. But, I need to have more self-respect and not stay with a narcissist as someone already said.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:50 pm to TigerCoon
Did anyone answer the gas station conundrum?
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:51 pm to BusinessKnight
30 year marriage to a hot wife here. Salma Hayek comparisons have been made by others and I agree.
But we’re each other’s first marriages and there are no exes.
If either of us cheated , we know the marriage would be over and I would lose half my shite, and she would probably stalk me. Nice problems to have.
But if I ever lost her, I would just stay single and enjoy that life to its fullest. I recommend you do the same. What you had is over. Just know you lived the dream. Nobody can take that from you. If you meet another, great. If not, that’s going to be pretty good too.
But we’re each other’s first marriages and there are no exes.
If either of us cheated , we know the marriage would be over and I would lose half my shite, and she would probably stalk me. Nice problems to have.
But if I ever lost her, I would just stay single and enjoy that life to its fullest. I recommend you do the same. What you had is over. Just know you lived the dream. Nobody can take that from you. If you meet another, great. If not, that’s going to be pretty good too.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:51 pm to BusinessKnight
PIIHB
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:51 pm to OysterPoBoy
she's a whore who did u wrong. I suggest getting her back, possibly posting her pic on TD idk.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:53 pm to bamapoet
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[ I still love her ]
No you don’t. You love the thought of her
He loves an idealized version of her that never actually existed. I’ve been there. It sucks.
You have to reframe this as a net positive and that you’re pining over someone who wasn’t real, ie the person you thought she was not the person she actually is.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:53 pm to Willie Stroker
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30 year marriage to a hot wife here
Cuck.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:54 pm to tigergirl10
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Why the hell is your family still talking to her? That’s bull shite
Yep, I hope they will stop talking to her. All I can say is that everyone thought we were an awesome couple and they really loved her. She has a lot of great qualities and developed highly integrated relationships. We were a popular topic in our family. While they knew she cheated, they probably want us to get back together and I haven't told them the extent of things. It is one of the reasons why this has been so difficult. A lot of hurt in both families. The minor kids are also real victims here. I was a father figure - the first real one - to her two minor kids.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 12:57 pm
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:54 pm to BusinessKnight
I’ll leave this here. Let me know where to bill the .2 hrs to.
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Universal Citation: LA Rev Stat § 14:323 (2017) §323. Tracking devices prohibited; penalty A. No person shall use a tracking device to determine the location or movement of another person without the consent of that person. B. The following penalties shall be imposed for a violation of this Section: (1) For the first offense, the fine shall be not less than five hundred dollars nor more than one thousand dollars, or imprisonment for not more than six months, or both. (2) For the second offense, the fine shall be not less than seven hundred fifty dollars nor more than one thousand five hundred dollars, or imprisonment for not less than thirty days nor more than six months, or both. (3) For the third offense and all subsequent offenses, the fine shall be not less than one thousand dollars nor more than two thousand dollars, or imprisonment for not less than sixty days nor more than one year, or both.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 12:54 pm to BusinessKnight
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she told me that she will always be friends with her exes
If you had made a post on the OT earlier with just this, us Baws could have saved you a lot of time and legwork.
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