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re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people

Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:10 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:10 pm to
The first sensible response!
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18789 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:13 pm to
Don’t believe this one at all. No one shares that much personal info on the internet, even Oweo.
Posted by member12
Bob's Country Bunker
Member since May 2008
32121 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:15 pm to
I’m just glad you guys parted ways before you got married.

You’d have lost half of your assets has you not caught this until after.
Posted by BusinessKnight
Member since Sep 2017
376 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:21 pm to
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Don’t believe this one at all. No one shares that much personal info on the internet, even Oweo.


Well, you don't know who I am and neither does anyone else, and I don't care what anyone thinks about me on this site, so it is a great place to talk about it. Also, I knew I would get honest raw feedback from the rant community. And, I knew I needed raw honest feedback and not some bs try to make me feel better stuff. And, both sides of it- the you need to grow a pair type and the you are better off she is a narcissist bitch type and the great advice are all very helpful. So, it has been worth it.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 2:25 pm
Posted by lshuge
Member since Sep 2017
818 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:23 pm to
on the next episode of Cheaters...
Posted by jts1207
Member since Apr 2018
927 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:29 pm to
Not reading all the replies.


Should have tossed the dumb whore out on her head the first time you caught her

Lot of self torture in that post
Posted by puse01
Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:31 pm to
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This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 1:36 pm
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29678 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:35 pm to
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But, I still love her.
How? Why?

She’s a lying, cheating fricking whore.

The bitch has the nerve to cheat on you with multiple men, then blame you for not trusting her. frick that stupid cûnt
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 2:37 pm
Posted by saralsim
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2009
493 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:38 pm to
Sounds like she wasn’t actually laid off. That much sex with that many different people is a full time job.
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
116173 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:40 pm to
Oh she was laid alright.
Posted by WildManGoose
Member since Nov 2005
4568 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:57 pm to
Sheesh man, I'm sure it's been said multiple times, but it sounds like you dodged a mortar round. It probably sucks right now, but you should be feeling pretty thankful that you were only engaged and not married yet. She sounds like a terrible person anyway.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27483 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 2:59 pm to
Either cut her out of your life completely.

Or go buy two shovels. Bury the first shovel with the body.
Posted by OleWar
Troy H. Middleton Library
Member since Mar 2008
5828 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:01 pm to
But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

Matthew 5:32

Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:02 pm to
You didn't ask what to do, but I'm gonna tell you what to do anyway.

1. Make sure all of her shite is out of your house. If she has a separate place, make sure all of your shite is out of her place. If she won't come get it, throw it out. Even something as trivial as a t-shirt. Get it ALL out of your house. She's likely the type of person that will reach out to you in a few months wanting her shirt back only to use that as an excuse to weasel her way back into your life with sex.

2. Cease all attempts to contact her. Block her number in your phone, and ask your family to cease all contact with her. If they refuse, tell them not to mention her to you.

3. Move on with your life.

I'm guessing she's the type that gets off on her exes contacting her, and though you say she's blocked your number, your family still in contact with her is giving her that attention she wants. The minute that stops, it's going to drive her crazy. She may show up at your house. She may unblock you in hopes of you texting her. She may reach out to you through other avenues. Ignore them all. It's okay to be heartbroken and still have feelings for her, but the sooner you admit it's over and cease worrying about her, the better off you will be.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20518 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:04 pm to
I hope the OP has cut off, and I mean cut off completely and soundly, any and all financial ties with her. Because a woman that crazy will absolutely take your arse to the cleaners and do it with a quickness.

I'd put a credit lock on my shite OP, chances are if you were together 2 years she has access to your ID, social, etc and could easily open a credit card or something else in your name.

You need to prepare for a Cat 5 even if its only supposed to be a tropical depression.
Posted by BusinessKnight
Member since Sep 2017
376 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:08 pm to
quote:

You didn't ask what to do, but I'm gonna tell you what to do anyway. 1. Make sure all of her shite is out of your house. If she has a separate place, make sure all of your shite is out of her place. If she won't come get it, throw it out. Even something as trivial as a t-shirt. Get it ALL out of your house. She's likely the type of person that will reach out to you in a few months wanting her shirt back only to use that as an excuse to weasel her way back into your life with sex. 2. Cease all attempts to contact her. Block her number in your phone, and ask your family to cease all contact with her. If they refuse, tell them not to mention her to you. 3. Move on with your life. I'm guessing she's the type that gets off on her exes contacting her, and though you say she's blocked your number, your family still in contact with her is giving her that attention she wants. The minute that stops, it's going to drive her crazy. She may show up at your house. She may unblock you in hopes of you texting her. She may reach out to you through other avenues. Ignore them all. It's okay to be heartbroken and still have feelings for her, but the sooner you admit it's over and cease worrying about her, the better off you will be.


This is good. Thank you.
Posted by BarCo49
Alabama
Member since Apr 2021
233 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:08 pm to
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Turns out she wanted to end it because she had fallen into a wheelbarrow full of dick and wanted out.


This is why I come here.

OP - you weren’t in love - it was lust. If the Vitamin P wasn’t so strong you’d not be having this problem. Not gonna call you a cuck, etc. but there’s no rectifying this - be glad you found out before you married her.
Posted by Chromdome35
NW Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
6873 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:11 pm to
back in the late '90s, I found out my wife was having an affair. I left her that day. Relationships are built on 3 core pillars, Love, Trust, and Respect.

If your relationship is lacking in any of those three it is doomed.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:13 pm to
Either a cuck or a pussy, maybe a cuckpussy? Assuming any of OP is true.
Posted by Rex Feral
Athens
Member since Jan 2014
11441 posts
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:13 pm to
quote:

quote:
You didn't ask what to do, but I'm gonna tell you what to do anyway. 1. Make sure all of her shite is out of your house. If she has a separate place, make sure all of your shite is out of her place. If she won't come get it, throw it out. Even something as trivial as a t-shirt. Get it ALL out of your house. She's likely the type of person that will reach out to you in a few months wanting her shirt back only to use that as an excuse to weasel her way back into your life with sex. 2. Cease all attempts to contact her. Block her number in your phone, and ask your family to cease all contact with her. If they refuse, tell them not to mention her to you. 3. Move on with your life. I'm guessing she's the type that gets off on her exes contacting her, and though you say she's blocked your number, your family still in contact with her is giving her that attention she wants. The minute that stops, it's going to drive her crazy. She may show up at your house. She may unblock you in hopes of you texting her. She may reach out to you through other avenues. Ignore them all. It's okay to be heartbroken and still have feelings for her, but the sooner you admit it's over and cease worrying about her, the better off you will be.


This is good. Thank you.


That's solid advice, though I would insist my family cut off communications with her, too. I can't imagine that would be a problem if you only tell them a portion of what you told us.

I'm sorry this happened to you. I've been trough something similar and it's terrible. I've cried twice in the last 25 years. Once over that and again on 9-11. Be strong, man.
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