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re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:14 pm to BusinessKnight
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:14 pm to BusinessKnight
Does she have any hot friends? If so, go frick all of them.
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Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:16 pm to BusinessKnight
BusinessKnight: This fellow sir knight is speaking of you:
Cut all ties with her and move on with your life.
Cut all ties with her and move on with your life.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:19 pm to BusinessKnight
One thing I learned a long time ago is that if a woman his a high number of partners and is pretty liberal about sex, then there’s a higher chance of her not being faithful in a relationship. I know all situations are different, but that seems to the be case more often than not. Would you really want to marry a woman who’s been passed around? Leave and never look back baw!!!!!
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:25 pm to Rick9Plus
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People like this like to stay connected to everyone they ever knew and she will always worm her way into your life somehow
My ex-wife was a whore and I found out the hard way. Been over 10 years and she should know I don't like her or want anything to do with her, yet she routinely will text with some bullshite to try to have something to talk about. About a year ago she apologized for things, and said how she had grown and worked on stuff, and I was just like good for you
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:30 pm to Tortious
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About a year ago she apologized for things, and said how she had grown and worked on stuff, and I was just like good for you
I'd think the best thing to do is move on, find someone better, and let her drown in her own bad choices. When she realizes what she did to herself and what she lost, you can just smile and appreciate what you have.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:32 pm to BusinessKnight
I know you mentioned that she is insecure. Based on what I read, her insecurity is dwarfed by yours.
No way in hell, based on the evidence you had gathered, should she have initiated the breakup.
Hopefully this is just a hard lesson learned. Though, I'd bet that you are at real risk of having this happen again and won't even recognize it until its too late.
No way in hell, based on the evidence you had gathered, should she have initiated the breakup.
Hopefully this is just a hard lesson learned. Though, I'd bet that you are at real risk of having this happen again and won't even recognize it until its too late.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 3:33 pm
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:35 pm to JAMAC2001
Agree, ole baw is a walking sucker for that.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:40 pm to JAMAC2001
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I know you mentioned that she is insecure. Based on what I read, her insecurity is dwarfed by yours. No way in hell, based on the evidence you had gathered, should she have initiated the breakup. Hopefully this is just a hard lesson learned. Though, I'd bet that you are at real risk of having this happen again and won't even recognize it until its too late.
Thank you. Yes, I need to figure out why I am insecure to the point that I became a doormat. It was probably not long enough after my divorce to be in a relationship.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 3:46 pm
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:52 pm to BusinessKnight
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Yes, I need to figure out why I am insecure to the point that I became a doormat
I was in a similar situation a few years ago. It was the first time that I cared enough about someone to not be as selfish as I was. Instead of taking care of my needs, I brushed them off to make sure I stayed in her good graces. After 5 years, I had enough of it and moved out. She had another dude living and sleeping in our bed within a few months. It was the most hurt I've ever been. My advice is to get a therapist you trust and go for it. Try to move on and learn from it. It's taken me some time but I've found someone who is way better to me and for me, but I could have only found it with working out my issues and "forgiving" her for what I thought were relationship ending issues.
Also, you need to be upfront and clear with your family. When she contacts you again, which she will, you need to stay strong and not go for that one more time sex.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:04 pm to BusinessKnight
You’re still attached to her . Do what you have to do to work through that. Then Move on.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:21 pm to BusinessKnight
The first thing I would have done is get that tracker off her car immediately after you had your proof.. Then I would have had a dinner with her kids and your family and played that footage on the big screen so all of them could see what a no good whore she was..Seriously its an absolute blessing that you found out before you were married. Best thing to do now is get some strange arse and you'll feel better in no time.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:32 pm to X123F45
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Either cut her out of your life completely.
Or go buy two shovels. Bury the first shovel with the body.
Why throw away a good shovel?
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:35 pm to BusinessKnight
I don't believe any of this. good story though.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:45 pm to Notnac
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The second you found out she was cheating you should have left her.
Not exactly. I would have stayed in the house with her and started getting revenge in unique ways before letting her know I knew.
And I mean unique ways.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:47 pm to Monday
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I was in a similar situation a few years ago. It was the first time that I cared enough about someone to not be as selfish as I was. Instead of taking care of my needs, I brushed them off to make sure I stayed in her good graces. After 5 years, I had enough of it and moved out. She had another dude living and sleeping in our bed within a few months. It was the most hurt I've ever been. My advice is to get a therapist you trust and go for it. Try to move on and learn from it. It's taken me some time but I've found someone who is way better to me and for me, but I could have only found it with working out my issues and "forgiving" her for what I thought were relationship ending issues. Also, you need to be upfront and clear with your family. When she contacts you again, which she will, you need to stay strong and not go for that one more time sex.
Thank you for sharing your experience and the good advice. Yes, I cared about her more than I probably should have and put her needs ahead of mine and tried to stay in her good graces as you put it, also. She should have been trying to stay in my good graces but she didn't care enough, apparently.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 4:54 pm
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:50 pm to SaintsTiger
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You’re still attached to her . Do what you have to do to work through that. Then Move on.
Yes, I am attached to her and look forward to when I can move on. This thread has helped me a lot more than I expected.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:53 pm to BusinessKnight
Don't beat yourself up. Do the opposite. Build yourself up. Freeze her out and think of her as what she is: a trashy arse untrustworthy whore. That will make it easier. Remember. Build yourself up. Learn and move on.
Nice move on the tracking device. Caught that whore red handed.
Prove this is all true by sending us a link to the one you got.
Nice move on the tracking device. Caught that whore red handed.
Prove this is all true by sending us a link to the one you got.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 4:54 pm
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:55 pm to baybeefeetz
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Don't beat yourself up. Do the opposite. Build yourself up. Freeze her out and think of her as what she is: a trashy arse untrustworthy whore. That will make it easier. Remember. Build yourself up. Learn and move on. Nice move on the tracking device. Caught that whore red handed.
Thank you. Yes, I need to see her for who she really is and not who I thought she was.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:59 pm to MIKEDATIGER
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Really dude , who uses this word ever??
quote:Or “I’m a catch” and “She’s a catch”?
smitten
It sounds to me like OP is the submissive weak partner and he likes getting sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, etc.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 5:00 pm to BusinessKnight
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Yes, I need to figure out why I am insecure to the point that I became a doormat. It was probably not long enough after my divorce to be in a relationship.
When you’re in shitty relationships where you’re not valued, you develop negative core beliefs about yourself that you don’t deserve better than what you have. And after awhile, they stick. It happens to the best of folks.
I’d suggest taking some time to yourself to really evaluate what you want and to really work on yourself. Particularly your self-esteem. Might be worth seeing a therapist to work on that so you don’t settle into old patterns.
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