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Do the majority of women only look at what they can get out of a relationship now days?

Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:41 am
Posted by RoosterCogburn585
Member since Aug 2011
1535 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:41 am
Scrolling though dating sites you see a lot of "Only swipe right if you will let me not be a "whatever job they have" anymore" or "I want someone who will treat me like a princess". Did the whole teamwork thing get thrown out the window?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4040 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:42 am to
If a women is on a dating site there’s a reason. All the men who live in her actual real life world have passed on her probably after usage.

Just remember that and you’ll be fine.
Posted by Gifman
by the mountains
Member since Jan 2021
9290 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:43 am to
Like with most women, their expectations are usually higher than reality.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124093 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:44 am to
Used to be you had to actually meet people
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53755 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:45 am to
Majority of women are not on dating sites so consider your testing source. If you want to meet people looking for something different maybe consider looking different places, trying different things and being open to different possibilities.

Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136798 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:47 am to
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Only swipe right if you will let me not be a "whatever job they have" anymore" or "I want someone who will treat me like a princess


These are basically beacons that certain men see to hit it and quit it.

Then the women get mad when that exact thing happens over and over again.

Change your mindset and change your life.

That being said, loser women tend to attract loser men.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
11170 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:50 am to
Social media is harming the way we are wired as a species.

Women are somewhat more socially bounded so the trends and mindsets they experience online have a greater impact than it would for an average male.

I won’t speak to online dating beyond the other factor which has been scientifically noted which is that women only appear to be interested in the top quartile of men and view a pair match of a statistical equal from a looks perspective as unattractive.

That sounds innocent enough but spread across a population is enough to cause absolute chaos if our assumption is that every potential male is supposed to find a mate. I would point out that’s not how it works in other species, but that’s a separate conversation.
This post was edited on 4/23/24 at 8:36 am
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
27923 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:50 am to
Yeah, but don't we all?
Posted by LB84
Member since May 2016
3348 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:52 am to
It's not just now. Women have been doing it since the beginning of time.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65625 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:54 am to
quote:

has been scientifically noted which is that women only appear to be interested in the top quartile of men
Worked out well for me.

Thanks nature!
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
6524 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 6:56 am to
Internet has created the +3 rule. Thirsty guys mass sending the same compliment to every woman has given the average woman about a +3 over estimate to her actual value
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68158 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:00 am to
Those sites are probably littered with the bottom of the barrel. Of course those people are dysfunctional.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15742 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:00 am to
You act as if this is a one way street. Don’t guys do the same thing?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4040 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:02 am to
Swipe right is simply agreeing to at minimum cumming on her tits. Wouldn't think much past that.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
78496 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:07 am to
Pro tip-Stay off dating sites unless your goal is just random hookups. I fell madly in love with a girl I met on a dating site but I think it was a minor miracle based on timing and synergy. Your better bet is to just go out and intentionally interact with women who interest you.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136798 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:08 am to
quote:

would point out that’s not how it works in other species, but that’s a separate conversation.


Women's secretly want ape Society where the females breed with the top males while the entire Community raises the children. Problem in humans is that the lower males will revolt.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11277 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:08 am to
Once they get to a certain age it seems like it. Especially if they have kids. They don't really look at who you are as much as what you're willing to provide.

Reading about a lot of folks dating experiences makes me appreciate my wife a lot more. When we met I was pretty much going paycheck to paycheck putting myself through school. She already had an established career. She didn't support me money wise (I didn't want or expect her to) but was really supportive of my goals and put up with a lot of bullsh*t over the first few years of dating while I was getting a career established. IDK what she saw in my dumbarse back then but glad she saw something.
This post was edited on 4/23/24 at 7:10 am
Posted by Locoguan0
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2017
4275 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:09 am to
Everyone only looks at what they can get out of a relationship. For some it is love, others passion, others money. It is nothing new. Take off your incel hat.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
12111 posts
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:10 am to
Do the majority of men only look at their company/job as what they can do for them now days?

It’s a generational problem.
This post was edited on 4/23/24 at 7:11 am
Posted by BadKarma
Member since Apr 2024
1 post
Posted on 4/23/24 at 7:10 am to
Set high expectations bc men won’t reach them anyways. Where did gentlemen go?
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