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Sperm donor sued for child support

Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:29 am
Posted by Raging Tiger
Teedy Town
Member since Jun 2023
523 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:29 am


Does anyone know what legal loophole she is getting him with? Absolutely insane that someone ask for the sperm, then sues you for your willingness to help with fertility and wham get sued for thousands.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
27135 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:31 am to
State governments have a bias towards allowing that kind of bullshite, because it saves them money on welfare benefits. It's a very fricked up invasion of contract.

ETA: If I recall correctly, the "loophole" is that child support is deemed paid to the child, not the mother. As such, the mother can't contract away the child's right to receive support from their biological father.
This post was edited on 4/30/24 at 10:33 am
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
150842 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:33 am to
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It's a very fricked up invasion of contract.

Yeah that's something that seems like it would be VERY clearly worked out in the legal language of donating/receiving from a clinic.

And if this is legit and actually happening, then clinics are about to see a pretty sharp decline in donations I'd imagine.
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
3752 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:33 am to
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child support


Congrats on the…oh wait.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
71317 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:33 am to
Did he contract with her directly or did he donate to a sperm bank?
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
10605 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:35 am to
While I would definitely appeal, in the meantime I would make her life absolutely miserable, legally. I would file for full custody of the child, even if I didn't want the kid. Just to spite her. Maybe if she thinks she could lose the kid, or have to share custody, she would drop the whole thing.
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
518 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:35 am to
quote:

It's a very fricked up invasion of contract.



I thank hay-zoos everyday that I haven't bee 23 and me tooed, of course all of my "kids" from my man whore days would probably qualify for AARP membership
This post was edited on 4/30/24 at 10:44 am
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
36205 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:37 am to
Another "strong and independent" modern woman who needs a man's money to raise a child.
Posted by holmesbr
Baton Rouge, La.
Member since Feb 2012
3020 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:38 am to
I would think this is the important part. If he donated to the sperm bank his deal is with the sperm bank. He shouldn't have a "contract" with the end user.

Is he on the hook even if he signed away his parental rights?
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21946 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:39 am to
quote:

Does anyone know what legal loophole she is getting him with?
I may get some of the details wrong, but there was a story a few years ago where a guy responded to a Craigslist ad from a lesbian couple looking for a sperm donor. He didn't have sex with either woman, just gave them his "donation" and they had some sort of agreement signed and all. Then later they sued him for child support and won. Had he gone through a legit sperm bank, he'd have been in the clear. But because it wasn't done through a licensed facility, he had no legal protection from the mother coming after him for child support.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
423284 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:40 am to
quote:

I may get some of the details wrong, but there was a story a few years ago where a guy responded to a Craigslist ad from a lesbian couple looking for a sperm donor. He didn't have sex with either woman, just gave them his "donation" and they had some sort of agreement signed and all. Then later they sued him for child support and won.

If I remember correctly, I don't even think they sued. I think the state sued him for child support b/c the kid was going on Medicaid. Or I may be remembering a similar scenario.

Note: if your biological child gets Medicaid, the state will do everything in its power to (1) have you pay child support and (2) get the child on private insurance.
Posted by Lsutigerturner
Member since Dec 2016
5812 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:43 am to
Lmfao whhhhhhat no way this holds up
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20224 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:49 am to
Looks legit and totally true
Posted by BigBinBR
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2023
4282 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 10:59 am to
This is fake. She had a post before where she said she doesn’t work and she’s a lesbian so she wanted to have a baby to support her. She said that she took it to court and lost, but is appealing because now she’s famous and maybe a judge will like her. TikTok

Also, no one is paying 40% for one child (which he said is thousands a month).
This post was edited on 4/30/24 at 11:29 am
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21946 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 11:01 am to
quote:

If I remember correctly, I don't even think they sued. I think the state sued him for child support b/c the kid was going on Medicaid. Or I may be remembering a similar scenario.
Yep, you're right. We're both thinking of the same case. The lesbians split up and then the state got involved in pursuing him for child support when they applied for public assistance.

LINK
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56443 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 11:05 am to
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saves them money on welfare benefits.
for every sperm donor paying child support I will present you with 10,000 3 lb orders of crawfish using food stamps.


The State doesn’t give a shite
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
10288 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 11:08 am to
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Absolutely insane that someone ask for the sperm, then sues you for your willingness to help with fertility and wham get sued for thousands.


Any time a woman opens her legs and doesn't require protection then she is asking for the sperm.

Any time you bust a nut inside a woman you're willingly helping with fertility.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15530 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 11:25 am to
Edit: It's a satire TikTok, it's not a real story.
This post was edited on 4/30/24 at 11:28 am
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
10288 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 11:28 am to
quote:


Edit: It's a satire TikTok, it's not a real story.


TikTok is blocked at work.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15530 posts
Posted on 4/30/24 at 11:34 am to
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TikTok is blocked at work.


Same, I found a youtube video discussing it to see what the woman was talking about, but it just said the entire thing was made to drive up tiktok views.

The woman talked about how she gets to be a stay at home mom now and a lesbian. It's rage bait.
This post was edited on 4/30/24 at 11:36 am
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