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Would you be bothered if you learned your son/daughter didn't stand for the pledge?

Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:22 pm
Posted by SwampyWaters
Member since Apr 2023
1400 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:22 pm
As a teacher and a son of a veteran, it absolutely infuriates me every morning when these 13-14-15 - year old students refuse to stand for the pledge and there's not a thing I can do about it.

I've many times thought about contacting the parents just to inform them of their child's actions, but that's a very slippery slope and could backfire and possibly even cost me my career, if they claim I'm infringing on their child's freedom of speech rights. Unfortunately, that's the times we live in.

So as a parent, would you want to know if your child was not standing for the pledge or do you think it's the child's decision? Just curious to hear from parents on the matter.






Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20259 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:26 pm to
DGAF. Most only do it because they are told to and are just going through the motion. Stand or don’t stand, government doesn’t give a frick about veterans either way which is a more important issue to get upset about
This post was edited on 4/22/24 at 5:30 pm
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3584 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:27 pm to
Im not a parent- but i did have a grandparent who fought in Korea so that we could all have the right to stand, or to not stand, for the pledge or for any other ritual .. so i say let ‘em exercise their freedom to sit if they want to .
Posted by Landmass
Member since Jun 2013
18189 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:29 pm to
Hell no. I think the pledge for children is a bit cultish. I'm not pledging allegiance to any government. They need to be allegiant to the people.
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28326 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:29 pm to
I'd be pretty disappointed that I failed as a parent.

Lots of good men and women died for our freedom.

They even gave us the freedom to be disrespectful and act stupid, which some of those people do.

Posted by Landmass
Member since Jun 2013
18189 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:31 pm to
quote:

if they claim I'm infringing on their child's freedom of speech rights. Unfortunately, that's the times we live in.


Imagine thinking that your inability to infringe on their freedoms is the bad part.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1443 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:32 pm to
I would. I think it's an important step to unification of our country. We should all be proud. But there's a culture that would rather unite behind hate, anger, race, political party instead of acceptance and unification.
Posted by faraway
Member since Nov 2022
2125 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:33 pm to
quote:

there's not a thing I can do about it.

you can learn to worry about your own business. you could also learn not to be a dancing monkey. you say the pledge bc you were conditioned to do so. no other reason. you probably think you're an independent thinking person, though.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71629 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:38 pm to
Your veteran parent defended that individuals right to ignore it. There’s always a blessing in disguise. Americans take a lot of things for granted. It may mean more one day, maybe not.
Posted by TigerMeister
North shore
Member since Nov 2009
2392 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:40 pm to
The pledge is gay.
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40748 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:44 pm to
Blind devotion to your country is dangerous
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
67051 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:48 pm to
yes. my children will be standing for the pledge out of respect for their family members who served. other’s children can stand or not stand, that’s on them. justify it however you want.

quote:

Im not a parent


thank frick
This post was edited on 4/22/24 at 5:52 pm
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99278 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:55 pm to
quote:

I've many times thought about contacting the parents just to inform them of their child's actions, but that's a very slippery slope and could backfire and possibly even cost me my career, if they claim I'm infringing on their child's freedom of speech rights. Unfortunately, that's the times we live in.


Punishing a kid for not standing is a violation of West Virginia State Board of Education v. Barnette that was decided and has been upheld since 1943. The premise of the ruling was based upon the protection of Jehovah Witnesses whose beliefs state they do not pledge to any symbol or object. Their objection was based on their persecution in Nazi Germany for objecting to pledge to the Nazi flag.

This isn’t something that’s the “times we live in”.
This post was edited on 4/22/24 at 5:56 pm
Posted by Lsuwannabe
Wesson
Member since Aug 2009
900 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:02 pm to
I would tear their azz up!
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71515 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:05 pm to
Would I be mad at my kid for doing it? Probably, because they don't understand why they are doing it. If they had a legitimate answer, I would probably disagree but be fine.
Posted by tallamander34
Member since Oct 2017
937 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:06 pm to
Government is more focused on immigrants keeping the flock of sheep moving up the hill. And then pushing us off
Posted by heatom2
At the plant, baw.
Member since Nov 2010
12813 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:06 pm to
Standing together and saying a pledge to the country is awful Soviet sounding
Posted by Olric
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2015
1888 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:07 pm to
I would want to know, only to understand his reasoning for not standing. If he can articulate a reason he feels is valid that I could at the very least understand then so be it. If he's just doing it because its cool then I would try to use it as a teaching moment.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
17622 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:10 pm to
I used to feel a sense of pride when I looked at the flag. I don't feel like it stands for what it did 30 years ago though.

My kids are elementary school aged, so I would expect that they see it as a sign of disrespect to not stand for the pledge, but I'm being totally honest here, I think I understand it now. I expect to get down voted to hell, but why am I pledging allegiance to a country that is once again funding endless wars, taxing it's citizens to fund a better way of life for non-citizens in this country than some citizens have, run by kangaroo courts that allow for political persecution and rendering verdicts without an opportunity for the defendants to defend themselves..... I really could keep going.

Am I pledging allegiance to what the country is now, what it used to be, or as a symbol of what it once was?
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
22536 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:19 pm to
What should happen to all the people who don’t mean the pledge they are making?
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