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re: Is anyone else not pushing their kids to attend college?

Posted on 5/7/24 at 12:54 pm to
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278674 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 12:54 pm to
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and hasn't shown any interest in anything specialized so it makes less sense.



Kids that take up trades & become successful are a different breed, too. Usually forced down that path due to circumstance & survival.

Most kids don’t want to climb around an attic in the summer while their friends are on summer break at the beach or pool.

Go get the degree especially if there’s any scholarship involved. You have to be illiterate to not qualify for TOPS
Posted by Tim Gambill
Member since Nov 2023
622 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:11 pm to
Problem is you have to find a university that's not a communist colony.
Posted by Dr Rosenrosen
Member since May 2006
3343 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:20 pm to
Mark Cuban had an interesting take on college degrees recently. He actually believes the market will swing back in favor of liberal arts majors. He thinks AI will replace many STEM and finance jobs. Not sure I agree but it was an interesting take.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11439 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:20 pm to
If I had gone to trade school right out of high school I'd be better off now. I wasted my time for 4 or 5 years at first. Once I figured out what I wanted to do I was a 4.0 student. I love my desk job but could have saved/made more money taking a different route to it.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119477 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:30 pm to
Trade school all day in today's America
Posted by thedogman
Member since Dec 2008
2244 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:32 pm to
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He is finishing up his freshman year of HS and hasn't shown any interest in anything specialized so it makes less sense.


He’s 14/15. How the frick is he supposed to know this already?


I get that and I am not saying he needs to know for sure what he wants to do. Said another way if we get late into his junior year or senior year and he doesn't have an idea I don't think it's wise to push him to go to college just to go figure it out. I like the idea of a gap year for him like other folks have mentioned here.
Posted by thejuiceisloose
UNO Fan
Member since Nov 2018
4236 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:43 pm to
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Universities are forcing liberal idealology on college kids these days, unless your going for Business, medical, accounting or engineering, i would not go to college.



For the sake of my argument I won't touch on if colleges are "indoctrinating" people or not, but just because you are being instructed in a way does not mean you have to adopt their way of thinking. If anything it would be beneficial to his critical thinking skills to be introduced to other viewpoints. There has been a movement on both sides of the political spectrum that their tender ears cannot and will not hear any dissenting voices and it's childish. So many these days want to live in a bubble. Also, you better watch out for the indoctrinating going on in the trade school, your boy will be chewing tobacco in no time.
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6073 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:49 pm to
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I think you may have this backwards. A college degree is a requirement to almost any job worth a shite these days


yea i have no clue wtf he is talking about

- want to be an operator at a plant- requires a degree

- want to be in any sort of management- requires a degree

other than the trades, I dunno if a single job that is even somewhat respectable that doesnt require them.


Yep. You won't even get an interview for a professional or management job without a college degree.
Posted by Privateer 2007
Member since Jan 2020
6226 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 1:53 pm to
Useful college degree, military, or a trade.

He needs to get into one.
Posted by turnpiketiger
Southeast Texas
Member since May 2020
9548 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:10 pm to
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The military is a good option for someone that doesn’t want to go to college.


I agree. It’s not encouraged nearly enough either. You really set yourself up for a long time if you play your cards right.
Posted by Blutarsky
112th Congress
Member since Jan 2004
9792 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:12 pm to
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I have a degree (albeit in general studies)


A step above a HS diploma.

Congrats.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45747 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:14 pm to
We don’t push my niece. She’s still in elementary school. So, we have time. But she mentions things like going to culinary school. We will support whatever she wants to do.

There are high schools where you can get your diploma and an Associate’s in 4 years and one of the associate degrees is in culinary. That may be in option if she wants to stay on this path.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39062 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:15 pm to
Pay for him to go to at least one bigger camp too. Can definitely build confidence going against the more recruited kids. They aren’t all that.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18465 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:18 pm to
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I get that and I am not saying he needs to know for sure what he wants to do. Said another way if we get late into his junior year or senior year and he doesn't have an idea I don't think it's wise to push him to go to college just to go figure it out. I like the idea of a gap year for him like other folks have mentioned here.


Gap year might be okay, but he probably won’t know what he wants to be even after that.

That’s what college is for especially the first two years. Take survey courses and move in a particular direction.

If he doesn’t attend college and goes the trade route, what then? He’ll be forced to pick a singular career at 19/20 instead of getting a wide ranging education that can prepare him for any number of fields.

Obviously ensure he’s focusing on degrees that lead to jobs and good salaries.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
17749 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:19 pm to
Have him spend 4 years in one of the services become a ATC get a job when he is done go bill at 21 years old he can go to school then DEBT FREE! Nothing wrong with education but he shouldn’t go into debt for it.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42299 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:21 pm to
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You think college improves one’s grammar?
Nope. He just shouldn’t be in college if he has that grammar.
Posted by thedogman
Member since Dec 2008
2244 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:30 pm to
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I have a degree (albeit in general studies)


A step above a HS diploma.

Congrats.


Generally speaking, this is my point. It's BS but I got one because you are "supposed" to. Not once has my BS college degree gotten me a job. I've been in the same field of work for about 20 years. My point being I make a decent living and owe none of it to my "degree". I don't believe it to be a requirement like it was in the past.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31436 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:32 pm to
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I don't believe it to be a requirement like it was in the past.


you are not getting an interview for any management or pretty much any decent job unless you have one.

you can start in the bottom at a company....still not getting that management position without the degree.

things have changed and pretty much every door is closed without a degree except things like the trades.

Go try and get hired at a bank without a degree and see how far you get. hell go try and get a management job at a retail store....good luck without it.
Posted by CarRamrod
Spurbury, VT
Member since Dec 2006
57472 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 2:35 pm to
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trade school and potentially pursue welding
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he will actually like designing and welding pieces of manufacturing equipment.
he wont be designing an of it.
Posted by bad93ex
Member since Sep 2018
27348 posts
Posted on 5/7/24 at 3:14 pm to
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he wont be designing an of it.



Manufacturing equipment might not have been the best word to use but a family member owns a welding shop that makes custom pieces for a very large manufacturer. There is always something that is needing to be built and/or customized.
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