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re: Wife is mad because I won't go to in laws twice in three weeks

Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:36 pm to
Posted by HattiesburgTiger5439
Hattiesburg ms
Member since Sep 2023
208 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:36 pm to
Yeah, your gonna be divorced. I bet within 12 yrs. Or less
Posted by thejuiceisloose
UNO Fan
Member since Nov 2018
4232 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:36 pm to
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She’s going to leave you for a man that wants to travel with her


Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124545 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:37 pm to
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I'm not doing both trips either way but AITAH?


Of course you're the a-hole. You're the man. You're already the villain of this piece.

It's a weekend free of nagging. Enjoy it
Posted by TheEnglishman
On the road to Wellville
Member since Mar 2010
3116 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:37 pm to
This is an unforced error..... Just do it and dont die on a hill you cant win.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23619 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:38 pm to
My mother-in-law is great. She lives out of state and never calls. I talk to her everyone once in a blue moon.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47450 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:38 pm to
Your wife asked you to go twice in one month to her family's home one time and you don't want to go. You should go. Period.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124545 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:39 pm to
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She’s going to leave you for a man that wants to travel with her



When a man says he likes to travel, "to your in laws" is not part of the sentence.
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
53008 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:39 pm to
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People do stuff every day that they don't want to do. It's part of life. In this case be happy it's a grad party and not a weekend at an arts and crafts festival in Des Moines, Iowa.


No doubt, that's why I go for a weekend every 5 weeks or so.

I feel like 2 of 3 weekends is excessive though.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119440 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:43 pm to
She's dialing 800-baw-need
Posted by Lush
Nola
Member since Jul 2023
479 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:47 pm to
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your gonna be divorced. I bet within 12 yrs. Or less


Sounds like a great ban bet.
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
9047 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:49 pm to
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We usually go for a weekend every 5 weeks or so and I feel like that's reasonable.


This is pertenant info that should have been included in the OP. If you make a 6 hour drive pretty much once a month then she has no room to complain about you sitting a couple out when they pile up.

Now I would probably try to negotiate but that's sometimes tricky with a woman. I'd agree to go to both trips in 3 weeks if we then take a hiatus and avoid the drive for a few months in a row. Maybe try to negotiate some road head too?
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Member since Feb 2007
103152 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:52 pm to
Fareplay board
Posted by SUB
Member since Jan 2001
Member since Jan 2009
20935 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:54 pm to
You are dumb. Your wife and in laws will resent you. Be a man and pretend to get very ill so you have an excuse to not go on the trip. The wife and in-laws will be sympathetic to you instead of resentful. Win win.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32695 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:55 pm to
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yall sound low energy. should prolly get your testosterone checked.

Agreed, I once drove from New Orleans to Vermilion Parish round trip 12 weekends in a row because I was helping my in-laws with their house.

Maybe I'm the weird one, but I don't mind traveling on the weekends.
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
53008 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:56 pm to
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You are dumb. Your wife and in laws will resent you. Be a man and pretend to get very ill so you have an excuse to not go on the trip. The wife and in-laws will be sympathetic to you instead of resentful. Win win


My MIL was saying I should just come (in a teasing way) and I told her they wouldn't come here twice in three weeks.

That kind of ended it.

FTR, they visit us maybe twice a year, we go there about once a month.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
22185 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:58 pm to
Does she go on girl's trips? Any Bahamian cruises in her future?
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
53008 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 2:00 pm to
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Agreed, I once drove from New Orleans to Vermilion Parish round trip 12 weekends in a row because I was helping my in-laws with their house.

Maybe I'm the weird one, but I don't mind traveling on the weekends.


That's like half the distance, baw

And you were doing it for a purpose, this is just to visit.
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
49836 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 2:00 pm to
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I'm not doing both trips


Yes, you are.
Posted by geauxpurple
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2014
12473 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 2:01 pm to
Don’t go.
Whether you want to go or not, you have to make decisions like this occasionally just to remind her of who the boss is.
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
53008 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 2:01 pm to
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Does she go on girl's trips? Any Bahamian cruises in her future?

No, she basically only travels if I go.

I travel a lot for work so I just want to chill some weekends.
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