Started By
Message

Divorced women (who married gay dude)?

Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:20 pm
Posted by litenin
Houston
Member since Mar 2016
2517 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:20 pm
I’ve known of about five marriages that ended where I hear later the guy ends up with a male partner. Some of these marriages had kids although a couple were short lived with none.

None of these were close enough friends to know details. More like friend of a friend or barely acquaintances. One of them was a guy I went to HS that always had girlfriends but most of my friends called him gay behind his back because of mannerisms and not being into sports.

Just wondering if anyone has any stories for this type of situation. Were the wives completely blindsided or had they seen clues? Did any later remarry into a completely normal relationship or did that experience screw them up beyond repair?
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
29689 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:20 pm to
Thinking about coming out?
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188335 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:23 pm to
Ive met several of the posters' wives ....
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
3765 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:24 pm to
Blinded by the thought of the perfect guy who also loves shopping, brunch, and is a great listener.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
129847 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:24 pm to
quote:

One of them was a guy I went to HS that always had girlfriends but most of my friends called him gay behind his back because of mannerisms and not being into sports.


So your only evidence is that he talks a little funny and doesn't like sports?


You need to suck his dick and see if he likes it before you go calling him gay


It's the only way to know for sure
This post was edited on 4/23/25 at 5:25 pm
Posted by caill430
Da Dirty Dell
Member since Jul 2005
1221 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:26 pm to
Please move to soccer board.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
67929 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:27 pm to
I know several that may qualify down the road.
Posted by SloaneRanger
Upper Hurstville
Member since Jan 2014
10807 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:28 pm to
It’s common. I know of 2 or 3. The sense of betrayal for these poor women must be massive. Being used as a beard.
Posted by AlextheBodacious
Member since Oct 2020
2434 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:30 pm to
quote:

Ive met several of the posters' wives

lol, Nurses at the hospital hardly count
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
751 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:35 pm to
A girl I work with, her father is gay. He was married to her mom for over 20 years, they had three daughters and they divorced because he came out to her. Her mom is smoking hot too.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14224 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:37 pm to
Sounds like you hang out with the wrong people.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49375 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:39 pm to
Some hide it and reveal after marriage takes place. All I know is that’s grounds for annulment.

It’s a terrible thing to do to another person. Which leads me to my next point:

Don’t be a homophobic parent otherwise your son may hide his true self and eventually ruin lives. Let your kids know you’ll love them no matter what… please.
This post was edited on 4/23/25 at 6:02 pm
Posted by Jimmy Bags
Member since Apr 2025
83 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:44 pm to
I can see why they stay together for a while b/c the wives eventually don't want sex and obviously the gay husband doesn't want sex with her so...
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
28684 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:45 pm to
quote:

perfect guy who also loves shopping, brunch, and is a great listener.


I mean I'm certainly not perfect....but I'm not opposed to the last three.
Posted by litenin
Houston
Member since Mar 2016
2517 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:46 pm to
I assume you mean because my friends were pretty mean to the weird kids in HS although that’s pretty common.

I also know of a guy that was a married Pastor and became Transgender after getting divorced. He/she is engaged to a woman now, which is always confusing to me (like Bruce Jenner situation where he only likes women).
Posted by threeputtforbogie
Addison, TX
Member since Sep 2017
927 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:47 pm to
Only one I know about is an A&M couple where the dude came out like a year into their marriage. A few of the guys knew something was up with the dude ahead of the wedding, so it wasn’t too surprising when it happened. Pretty funny it was an A&M couple though.
Posted by theOG
Member since Feb 2010
10671 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:48 pm to
quote:

not being into sports.


fig
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
68794 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:49 pm to
The closest story I have is the couple who lived next door when we moved into the neighborhood. She wife had a gay friend who hung out with her and her group of girlfriends.

Come to find out, the “gay” friend wasn’t as gay as he made out to be. Apparently, from what he told me, he walked in and found her riding her gay friend on their living room couch one night.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
29395 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:51 pm to
I “know” one. Has two kids, both of which are totally fricked up. Dude has to be mid to late 50s, goes to raves and does drugs (with his daughter no less) and tried to run for a political position as an insane liberal and got like no votes. From what I understand, was an executive at a bank and has a shite ton of money and is retired. Total piece of shite in my opinion
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
12389 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:52 pm to
I have a good one. I went to a wedding about 20 years ago where everyone knew the guy was gay. He was incredibly feminine. They ended up breaking up, but she ended up marrying another lady. So both of them were gay.
Page 1 2 3 4 5 6 7
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 1 of 7Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram