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Divorced women (who married gay dude)?
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:20 pm
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:20 pm
I’ve known of about five marriages that ended where I hear later the guy ends up with a male partner. Some of these marriages had kids although a couple were short lived with none.
None of these were close enough friends to know details. More like friend of a friend or barely acquaintances. One of them was a guy I went to HS that always had girlfriends but most of my friends called him gay behind his back because of mannerisms and not being into sports.
Just wondering if anyone has any stories for this type of situation. Were the wives completely blindsided or had they seen clues? Did any later remarry into a completely normal relationship or did that experience screw them up beyond repair?
None of these were close enough friends to know details. More like friend of a friend or barely acquaintances. One of them was a guy I went to HS that always had girlfriends but most of my friends called him gay behind his back because of mannerisms and not being into sports.
Just wondering if anyone has any stories for this type of situation. Were the wives completely blindsided or had they seen clues? Did any later remarry into a completely normal relationship or did that experience screw them up beyond repair?
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:20 pm to litenin
Thinking about coming out?
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:23 pm to litenin
Ive met several of the posters' wives ....
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:24 pm to litenin
Blinded by the thought of the perfect guy who also loves shopping, brunch, and is a great listener.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:24 pm to litenin
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One of them was a guy I went to HS that always had girlfriends but most of my friends called him gay behind his back because of mannerisms and not being into sports.
So your only evidence is that he talks a little funny and doesn't like sports?
You need to suck his dick and see if he likes it before you go calling him gay
It's the only way to know for sure
This post was edited on 4/23/25 at 5:25 pm
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:26 pm to litenin
Please move to soccer board.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:27 pm to litenin
I know several that may qualify down the road.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:28 pm to litenin
It’s common. I know of 2 or 3. The sense of betrayal for these poor women must be massive. Being used as a beard.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:30 pm to OWLFAN86
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Ive met several of the posters' wives
lol, Nurses at the hospital hardly count
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:35 pm to litenin
A girl I work with, her father is gay. He was married to her mom for over 20 years, they had three daughters and they divorced because he came out to her. Her mom is smoking hot too.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:37 pm to litenin
Sounds like you hang out with the wrong people.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:39 pm to litenin
Some hide it and reveal after marriage takes place. All I know is that’s grounds for annulment.
It’s a terrible thing to do to another person. Which leads me to my next point:
Don’t be a homophobic parent otherwise your son may hide his true self and eventually ruin lives. Let your kids know you’ll love them no matter what… please.
It’s a terrible thing to do to another person. Which leads me to my next point:
Don’t be a homophobic parent otherwise your son may hide his true self and eventually ruin lives. Let your kids know you’ll love them no matter what… please.
This post was edited on 4/23/25 at 6:02 pm
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:44 pm to litenin
I can see why they stay together for a while b/c the wives eventually don't want sex and obviously the gay husband doesn't want sex with her so...
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:45 pm to atxfan
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perfect guy who also loves shopping, brunch, and is a great listener.
I mean I'm certainly not perfect....but I'm not opposed to the last three.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:46 pm to BabyTac
I assume you mean because my friends were pretty mean to the weird kids in HS although that’s pretty common.
I also know of a guy that was a married Pastor and became Transgender after getting divorced. He/she is engaged to a woman now, which is always confusing to me (like Bruce Jenner situation where he only likes women).
I also know of a guy that was a married Pastor and became Transgender after getting divorced. He/she is engaged to a woman now, which is always confusing to me (like Bruce Jenner situation where he only likes women).
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:47 pm to litenin
Only one I know about is an A&M couple where the dude came out like a year into their marriage. A few of the guys knew something was up with the dude ahead of the wedding, so it wasn’t too surprising when it happened. Pretty funny it was an A&M couple though.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:48 pm to litenin
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not being into sports.
fig
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:49 pm to litenin
The closest story I have is the couple who lived next door when we moved into the neighborhood. She wife had a gay friend who hung out with her and her group of girlfriends.
Come to find out, the “gay” friend wasn’t as gay as he made out to be. Apparently, from what he told me, he walked in and found her riding her gay friend on their living room couch one night.
Come to find out, the “gay” friend wasn’t as gay as he made out to be. Apparently, from what he told me, he walked in and found her riding her gay friend on their living room couch one night.
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:51 pm to litenin
I “know” one. Has two kids, both of which are totally fricked up. Dude has to be mid to late 50s, goes to raves and does drugs (with his daughter no less) and tried to run for a political position as an insane liberal and got like no votes. From what I understand, was an executive at a bank and has a shite ton of money and is retired. Total piece of shite in my opinion
Posted on 4/23/25 at 5:52 pm to litenin
I have a good one. I went to a wedding about 20 years ago where everyone knew the guy was gay. He was incredibly feminine. They ended up breaking up, but she ended up marrying another lady. So both of them were gay.
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