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re: Kids of the 70's and 80's..Did your dad whip you with a belt back in the day...?
Posted on 7/17/22 at 6:51 pm to Hangover Haven
Posted on 7/17/22 at 6:51 pm to Hangover Haven
A little of “Dads belt” would go a long way to whipping much of today’s societal disfunction. Fact.
This post was edited on 7/17/22 at 6:52 pm
Posted on 7/17/22 at 6:53 pm to Hangover Haven
Belt across the back, butt, and legs b/c I wouldn’t hold still. Got whipped a bunch. Dad stopped whipping me with his hand on my butt because he almost broke his hand whipping me one time.
I thought most of my whippings were BS. If my dad was in a bad mood there was a high chance I got a whipping. If I was having a bad day there was a high chance I got a whipping. He would make me pick out the belt every time from his closet. It was like walking the green mile. If I was told I was getting a whipping it was over. Apologizing for what I did or remaining good for the remainder of the day never saved me from a whipping once.
I thought most of my whippings were BS. If my dad was in a bad mood there was a high chance I got a whipping. If I was having a bad day there was a high chance I got a whipping. He would make me pick out the belt every time from his closet. It was like walking the green mile. If I was told I was getting a whipping it was over. Apologizing for what I did or remaining good for the remainder of the day never saved me from a whipping once.
This post was edited on 7/17/22 at 7:09 pm
Posted on 7/17/22 at 7:01 pm to Hangover Haven
Fly swatter from mom. Dad wasn’t the disciplinarian
Posted on 7/17/22 at 7:44 pm to Hangover Haven
Yes and I am better off because of it.
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:02 pm to Hangover Haven
My mother gave me the whippings. I was a child of the 60’s though. I got it with a belt, shoe, board, or the worst… a clothes hanger
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:08 pm to Hangover Haven
My dad used the belt as a last resort. But if he did me and my sister really knew that we pissed him off.
The worst either one of us got the belt was in 1995 after Hurricane Opal blew through West Central GA/S.Metro Atlanta. We were cleaning up and my sister kept refusing to help to the point that my dad had finally had enough; he leaned her up against the big oak in the back yard, pulled her pants down and beat her arse. I've never seen him so mad. She cried the rest of the night.
The worst either one of us got the belt was in 1995 after Hurricane Opal blew through West Central GA/S.Metro Atlanta. We were cleaning up and my sister kept refusing to help to the point that my dad had finally had enough; he leaned her up against the big oak in the back yard, pulled her pants down and beat her arse. I've never seen him so mad. She cried the rest of the night.
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:18 pm to Hangover Haven
Special thick leather belt that he only kept to beat me with, which was often until I got big enough to handle myself. It's interesting how so much rage coming out of a 10 year old can scare a 35 year old man into backing off permanently. Of course that was just my step father.
My father used the hand on a hot stove technique. Guess the belt was too "mainstream".
My father used the hand on a hot stove technique. Guess the belt was too "mainstream".
This post was edited on 7/17/22 at 8:22 pm
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:21 pm to Hangover Haven
Never used the belt. When I seriously fuc_ked up he picked me up from my neck and threw me across the room. Let's just say I never did that shite again...
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:23 pm to Hangover Haven
Got my arse tore up
As did MOST my buddies
The ones that didn’t are in their mid 40’s and are POS
FACT
As did MOST my buddies
The ones that didn’t are in their mid 40’s and are POS
FACT
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:26 pm to Hangover Haven
Mom played the “who can hit the softest” game with us. She let us go first and we’d lightly tap her, then she’d haul off and crack the bejesus out of us declaring that we won.
There were belts and coat hangers but we knew we messed up when they’d hold up a thick phone book to our heads and punch it hard. It didn’t leave any marks the way an open hand or fist would. Dad would only whip us because he had to and he’d explain it away. “I’m only doing this so your mother doesn’t get pissed at me.” Understood dad, understood. Many, many, many things all of us did went into the category of dad laughing at us and giving his fatherly guidance of: “we need to swear we are not telling your mother about this.”
There were belts and coat hangers but we knew we messed up when they’d hold up a thick phone book to our heads and punch it hard. It didn’t leave any marks the way an open hand or fist would. Dad would only whip us because he had to and he’d explain it away. “I’m only doing this so your mother doesn’t get pissed at me.” Understood dad, understood. Many, many, many things all of us did went into the category of dad laughing at us and giving his fatherly guidance of: “we need to swear we are not telling your mother about this.”
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:27 pm to Hangover Haven
I got swatted with a sorority paddle. I had DZ branded onto my arse before I was 10.
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:35 pm to Hangover Haven
Mom would spank us on the spot with belt or removable purse strap. Dad was a truck driver and was gone a lot. He didn’t think it was right to spank us a week later when he got back home. His thing was a lecture about how mom told me what she had to spank you for and why whatever we did warranted the spanking. The lecture would last for what seemed like hours.
Looking back I’d take the spanking over the lecture any day.
Looking back I’d take the spanking over the lecture any day.
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:40 pm to TBoy
Mostly with the hand. I think I can count the number of times I was spanked on one hand.
I had friends whose parents were Missouri Synod Lutheran. They got beat bad with belts and the impression I got was that the dad seemed to like really beating them. I remember once we got changed to go swimming at school and their butts and thighs were deep black and blue. Nowadays the teacher would have to call child services and the police. Most of us were spanked back then but never that bad. The family had a paddle hanging on the wall in their kitchen but the dad always whipped them with a belt. I recall once when I was over playing one of their kids acted up and the mom got the paddle and the poor kid ran around the house avoiding her like he was afraid he'd get beat bad. I went back home when that started.
I had friends whose parents were Missouri Synod Lutheran. They got beat bad with belts and the impression I got was that the dad seemed to like really beating them. I remember once we got changed to go swimming at school and their butts and thighs were deep black and blue. Nowadays the teacher would have to call child services and the police. Most of us were spanked back then but never that bad. The family had a paddle hanging on the wall in their kitchen but the dad always whipped them with a belt. I recall once when I was over playing one of their kids acted up and the mom got the paddle and the poor kid ran around the house avoiding her like he was afraid he'd get beat bad. I went back home when that started.
This post was edited on 7/17/22 at 8:46 pm
Posted on 7/17/22 at 8:51 pm to Kingshakabooboo
I don't care what anyone says, the hard stuff is abuse plain and simple.
I got beat with everything from electrical cords to oilfield pipe.
It's an evil act and my kids will never see anything of the sort. Besides, taking a kid's phone or internet devices away now is exponentially more effective than any type of beating.
I got beat with everything from electrical cords to oilfield pipe.
It's an evil act and my kids will never see anything of the sort. Besides, taking a kid's phone or internet devices away now is exponentially more effective than any type of beating.
This post was edited on 7/17/22 at 8:57 pm
Posted on 7/17/22 at 9:13 pm to Hangover Haven
80s kid. My dad had a big leather Western belt. He didn’t use it much but it was effective.
Posted on 7/17/22 at 9:13 pm to Hangover Haven
My mom had a black belt she'd whip us with
If we were really bad my dad broke out the wood paddle
If we were really bad my dad broke out the wood paddle
Posted on 7/17/22 at 9:20 pm to Hangover Haven
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Didn't get a lot, but when I got it, it was well deserved.
Posted on 7/17/22 at 9:22 pm to Hangover Haven
Wish I was young enough to play.
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